My friend Robin is 45 yrs old. to get over a bad break up and depression she joined american singles dating service. there she met many guys that she has met in person once and 2 guys that she has met numerous times. She has been honest with them all saying that she wants to take any relationship slow starting only as friends and seeing if the relationship can build into something more and that she is seeing other men. This one guy mike is really nice but is too ??dull?? for her. She is a very active person and likes to go out and do things like horseback riding, deep sea fishing, camping and other activities. He on the other hand has a scheduale he doesnt break. The highlight of their "dates" is going out to eat at subway (money is not an issue). She wants to break it off with him becasue other guy she's been seeing they just seem to connect, he is more her type. she just called me b/c she was going to break it off with mike tonite, but she sent her flowers at work and ...
2006-09-25 06:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
called her work +30 times. asking her co-workers all sorts of personal questions about her. she thinks mike is a nice guy, doesnt want to hurt him. How can she let him down easy???
2006-09-25 06:29:53 · update #1
Just let him down. Hes a grown man and can handle it. Besides he has NO business calling her work.
WAY OUT OF LINE! In my book.
2006-09-25 06:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
calling her 30 + times at work and asking colleagues about her?? the nice guy is turning a tad obsessive. she just has to tell him straight. he will be hurt either way so the best thing to do is not to hurt him more by lying to him.
2006-09-25 06:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike sounds like a starker
2006-09-25 06:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't an easy way of letting someone know that you are ready to move on. But, she can just be honest with him and tell him the truth.
2006-09-25 06:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mike sounds scary how the hell does someone call someone's work 30 TIMES,what the f*ck,thats insane.tell this guy to get a life and scram.
2006-09-25 06:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him down honestly, frankly, and to the point. So that he does not wonder.
2006-09-25 06:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave him access to phone numbers that is number one no-no,, I am 46 and wont give my number,, Email,, or I call them,, she just needs to say thanks but no thanks,, she sounds nice,,
tell her to email Me :-)
trouble with singles service is that there is alot of sleeping around,
2006-09-25 06:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST I CAN GIVE IS SAY IT WITH A "HALLMARK CARD" THEY HAVE CARDS FOR EVERY OCCASION SAD AND GOOD
2006-09-25 06:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would he do the same to her.
why????
2006-09-25 06:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋