The argument...notice I said 'the' and not 'my'...
anyway...the argument is that god wants us to experience things to make us stronger. Kind of like in a parent allowing kids to explore the world, get hurt, so they can grow. My feeling is that this life is not fair and never will be but we, as individuals, need to help each other through this life. Evil and good co-exist and should ... but that is another discussion.
2006-09-25 06:28:53
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answered by RJ 3
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Speaking from personal experience and having gone through my own personal war with God I will say this. Some things that happen to us just...happen. There is always a plan with a higher purpose. Maybe there is a child out there who is meant to be yours but the two of you would never find each other unless adoption was your only choice to be a mother. It's difficult and it hurts like hell. But blaming God will not help nor is he to blame. Your life is a gift and you have a purpose. Force yourself to look through to the heart of your pain and there you may find it. God Bless You!!!
2006-09-25 13:30:34
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answered by Dhara 6
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First, I'm sorry for your pain. I think that blaming God is the wrong way to heal emotionally. No one understands His plan, but trusting it can lead to understanding that He may have blessings waiting that you never imagined. Also remember that He is a great healer and nothing is impossible for those who ask in faith.
Pain and suffering exist not because God is vengeful or mean, but because we are a fallen race. It's because God is graceful that we have ways of overcoming them. Just think of how far medical advances have come because of divine inspiration. Hang in there, things will get better.
2006-09-25 13:33:44
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answered by dbackbarb 4
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He did not ravage your uterus. We are here only a short time, if you have suffered here, He has the whole eternity to make it up to you.
Do not look at your own circumstances. God's love is all around you. Miracles do happen. They might not be the ones you want. Have faith in every situation. He never leaves you alone.
2006-09-25 13:30:17
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answered by SeeTheLight 7
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I feel for your situation. Reproductive diseases like cysts, warts, and other's certainly are painful and take away your ability to child birth. The Lord always has plans for us. Sometimes they are easy to see, accept, and obey; while other times they are hidden, mystical, and painful to follow. Remember, Christ died on the Cross (painful) so that our sins would be paid for.
Children are a gift given by God. No couple is entitled to them, nor can they be demanded. Certainly, when you have made peace with your body and its condition, you may find that alternatives like foster family, adoption, or teaching may be the medicine to help you and another human being.
I'm trying to memorize this truth I believe of God, so, I'll share it here with you: "God is love (Jn). Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love's forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power."
2006-09-25 13:41:30
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answered by Giggly Giraffe 7
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Why do you assume God purposefully did this to you? What is your evidence? True, nothing happens outside of God's will, but there is a difference between His "active will" (i.e. purposefully doing this to you) and His "permissive will" (i.e. permitting it to happen).
The truth is, we live in a very, very evil world. Illnesses happen because of the great distance between humankind and God. Some day, this distance will be permanently removed. But in the meantime, it's not as if He delights in afflicting us.
I will pray for your healing. Peace.
2006-09-25 13:30:29
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answered by Suzanne: YPA 7
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First of all, we are loved by our deed, and ONLY our deeds.
God gave us life, and he does what ever he wants with us. God created us to worship him. If you we're a righteous person, and had many diseases and struggles and pain in your life, then that would be from God's mercy on you. The prophet Muhammad told us that if any believer was to get hurt, if even a splinter scratch, then God would forgive some of his sins. but as for a person that was evil, not believing and had no hope in god, then that's what he deserves...
2006-09-25 13:33:35
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answered by Believe.The Verb. 2
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God didn't "ravage" your "uterus with scar tissue". God didn't do that to other women either. It's called genetics. You got screwed up genes, blame your parents, not God.
God doesn't do bad things to people; likewise, he doesn't do good things to people either. God is an idea to get people to act kinder towards each other, to give people something to believe in because they can't stomach the idea that when you die, it's lights out. Stop hating God, stop blaming Him for your wrongs in life, and get the christ over it. Grow up, live life, and move on. That's my best advice. Peace.
2006-09-25 13:31:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Some women are not supposed to have children. I know that sounds harsh but for some reason, he knows. Maybe you were meant to adopt a less fortunate one and maybe be the greatest influence on that child that ever could have been.
2006-09-25 13:28:26
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answered by mortgagegirl101 6
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I don't understand why God allows people to suffer, but the God that I know does not need humans to defend His actions. Have you asked Him why? And actually listened for an answer? Do you know who to ask?
2006-09-25 13:29:51
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answered by theology_chick 2
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