I am kinda dating my boss who i think has a girlfriend-he says there is nothing between them but I kinda think there is. We spend all of our time away from work together but he owns the bar/restaurant I work at. Last night he introduced me to one of his friends who works in the restaurant business and this is what he said to her "You know how a restaurant works right and she gave him a weird look and he said ok this is *****. (my Name) And she was like what and he said nevermind you don't get it. " what the hell does that mean? Am I just a girl that he is having sex with on a work level? I am so confused because I like him alot-Even think I am falling in love with him. And he is so sweet and makes me feel special with the things he says to me. But I kinda feel like I am being used. Please someone help me.
2006-09-25 06:24:11 · 14 answers · asked by katiesbigsmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was he drunk? If he's spending all his time with you outside of work, when does he have time for someone else? When in doubt, move on...
2006-09-25 06:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by luvmysoldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And then, he did Not really introduce you like a boyfriend would introduce a girlfriend to his friends. Why would he mention something about how the restaurant works and then says OK her name is ... He just threw the introduction in there real quick and it clearly lacked any importance that way. When he said "Never mind, you don't get it," what was there to get? I think he is using you, but only because You Are providing him with sex even though he has a girlfriend but because there's nothing between them. I wonder if she knows there's nothing between them so he's doing you. What do you think? I am confused too. How do you have sex "on a work level"? Is that where:for every ten times you give him sex, he ups your pay by 20 cents. The best thing for you to do is to stop having sex with him since he's your boss--things are already awkward. Also, you think he has a girlfriend. So find another boyfriend who want be ashamed or feel guilty when introducing you to friends.
2006-09-25 06:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are falling in love you better find another job cut your losses and move on. If you can handle having a little fun hang in there ride the wave and see where it ends. He's only using you if he's the only one benefitting from the relationship. If you know what time it is and you now he's not trying to make it serious take advantage of the perks.
2006-09-25 06:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see this as a booty call,, Can you just imagine how many girl have gone through him,,,, you are not the first one or the last one,,, what makes you think that he is going to take you seriuosly? just tell him that you dont want to have anything fisically with him and you will see that as soon as you tell him that he will jump to the next one,,, or ask him if he will ever take you seriously because your feeling that you have for him are growing ,,,,, just se his reaction,,, He is just using you,,
2006-09-25 06:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda dating (shagging) the boss, kinda feel like you're being used....You sound kinda stupid and I kinda hope you get out that situation kinda fast.
2006-09-25 06:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a new job! Sorry, but you called it. Yeah, he's a player. Grab your self-respect and run! Best of luck.
2006-09-25 06:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is only using you!!! everybody deserves to be treated with respect and obviously he doesn't.... not when people are around watching.
its better to be alone then to be with a guy like that.
2006-09-25 06:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you. You are just is plan B. Know that you deserve more from a man.
2006-09-25 06:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble, your asking to get fired, and to have a broken heart. this is a warning. you best heed it
2006-09-25 06:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a gf then you should date him your prob. better than that you prob. can find someone better!♥ Jessica ♥
2006-09-25 06:26:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥qiqqleszxbaybeeh ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋