I had this man who volunteered to train me. During the first ten hour session, he introduced me to all the partners and was constantly explaining things to me. He's good looking, kind, and I have to admit attractive, but I would never mix my building career with personal life and made sure I didn't show it. Near the end of the shift, we went back to headquarters where he had some things to do before he left. I stuck around to spend time with the other partners while everyone was finishing up work. My training-partner left so suddenly with barely saying goodbye, which seemed uncharacteristic. As I left the building with his partners, they were like "what was his rush all about" and then they told me he had a wife and kid on the way. I had no idea, I thought maybe he had a girlfriend at most, and out of all the talking we did.... he didn't mention them once!!
Now I have a bad gut feeling. I did't think I did anything wrong, but something's not right. what the hell could this be?
2006-09-25 05:35:44 · 8 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
hm, because of 'gut feelings'
2006-09-25 05:39:29 · update #1
i maybe thought he did fancy me originally, but no i don't think he likes me that way and i hope he doesn't. i just feel that something is wrong.
2006-09-25 05:44:51 · update #2
Your own guilty feelings for being attracted. Not that they are wrong.... what is wrong is your feeling guilty. Been there... done that.
The fact that he did not mention his personal life shows that he was keeping it on a professional level. Men usually do not share their personal lives much with people they know, let alone someone they are just getting acquainted with.
2006-09-25 05:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very paranoid so it will be easy for me to answer this question...It might just be that something came up with his wife also it could have been maybe he was catching feelings also and he felt the only way to deal was leave .....Everything is not always about us ans even though it sounds strange it may just be a coincidence
2006-09-25 05:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by cora7391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He changed into respecting the pro distance that would favor to be maintained in an workplace environment. he's lower than no requirement to instruct any component of his own existence to you. really on a first assembly. it really is professionally irrelevant. It appears like he's a gentleman and irritating to get abode to his spouse who's awaiting. it really is a extra exciting and intimate time for husbands and better halves than i imagine you would comprehend (no longer being married -- no longer attempting to be sarcastic or cruel). Thank your fortunate stars that you operating with such an outstanding guy.
2016-11-23 20:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is your principle, not to mix professional and personal life, you have behaved correctly. as far as your feelings tell you, i don't understand, why should you feel out of place ?
perhaps he didn't mention his marital status, in order to create interest, in the wrong direction.
next time you meet him, don't even indicate that you felt it bad about his not wishing you goodbye ! be curt, professional, and business-like. even if you liked him, he is a married man, and a would-be father !
2006-09-25 05:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. just take one day at a time and see how things work out. just play it calm cool and collected as this job may be the best one you ever had. sounds as though it is really to early to tell. you are correct though as business and pleasure don't work well together.
2006-09-25 05:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female? If you are female maybe he was trying to play the rounds. If you are male, maybe it was too much information to spill for somebody he was training.
2006-09-25 05:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by o_nyce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a religiuse question do you think he fancies you ??
2006-09-25 05:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in religion?
2006-09-25 05:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋