how do you know if your girl is cheating?

Answer 1

See if she's hiding cards under a nearby cushion... I've had girlfriends cheat on me before and I got sceptical when houses and hotels appeared on their properties... never trust anyone... especially women...

Answer 2

Cheating?

cheating - adj 1: not faithful to a spouse or lover; "adulterous husbands and wives"; "a two-timing boyfriend" [syn: adulterous, cheating(a), two-timing(a)]

intimacy –noun
1.the state of being intimate.
2.a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.
3.a close association with or detailed knowledge or deep understanding of a place, subject, period of history, etc.: an intimacy with Japan.
4.an act or expression serving as a token of familiarity, affection, or the like: to allow the intimacy of using first names.
5.an amorously familiar act; liberty.
6.sexual intercourse.
7.the quality of being comfortable, warm, or familiar: the intimacy of the room.
8.privacy, esp. as suitable to the telling of a secret: in the intimacy of his studio.

Men and women view cheating very differently because they view intimacy differntly.

Men use definition number 6 because they are more physically oriented. For them to "cheat" then they have to be initimate with someone else physically.

Women use definition number 2 because they are more emotionally oriented. For them to "cheat" is to create a personal relationship (connection) with someone - it doesn't matter if they ever "touch" physically or not.


How to find out if she is?

Well first of all you two need to have a conversation about monogomy. If both of you have said that you only intend to be with the other - then you have a reason to be upset. If you haven't had this converstation then you need to understand that she may not believe she is "cheating" since you two are NOT in a monogamous relationship.

That said... typically people who are cheating avoid direct eye contact when talking to the other person about intimate topics (like the one above). Their sex drive decreases (with that person), they may be overly defensive about things that don't make sense, they are away or can not be contacted at times when they should be. they become unreliable. they seem distance an unresponsive.

But.. if you THINK she may be cheating.. then is now a trust issue and you need to figure out if you want to stay in a relationship with someone you no longer trust.

Answer 3

if you really think your girl is cheating on you then the only thing you can really do is just ask her.

tell her why you think there is something going on and talk about it she may be able to allay your fears.

and if this still dont work then get out of the relationship because without trust you have no relationship .

Answer 4

well based on my expereince of my boyfriend cheating on me,

i can say that some signs will become very recognisable
she will become secretive
more hostile towards you or less cuddly
lying to you
avoiding you
finding it hard to say i love you
wont want to sleep with you

above all her overall or whole attitude will change

trust me you will get an instinct

hope that helps x

Answer 5

Well if there is no trust left then there is nothing to hang onto. Y ou should know her well enough to recognize any differences, or confront her and be open, thats what a real relationship is.

Answer 6

Just find out whether you are cheating her!!

Answer 7

aww i'm sorry kuchi i no how you feel i went with my gut feeling and came right out and asked him i was right and we broke up so if you suspect then you dont trust her and a realationship aint got nothing if you don have trust so come right out and ask her you have nothing to loose

best of luck
amy

Answer 8

Get close enough to semll her breath? Does it smell like
she's been going down on someone? If so, then you know she's been cheating .....

Answer 9

well ders alot of signs like....
she locks her cell phone.
she waits till she goes to da restroom to use her phone.
she wants to go to da store by herself.
shes suspiciouse bout u cheatin.
shes startin to hang out with her friends more.
she dresses up more often or more dressy
she dosent make love to u like she did
she dosent wanna make love to u at all
she dosent cuddle with u
she dosent go out wit u as much nomore
she rather chill at home instead of goin out wit u
right after she gets home she goes straight into da shower
she dosent wanna go out n eat lunch wit u on ur lunch break
she dosent answer ur phone calls wen she with da "girls"
she has new clothes or jewlery or perfume dat was expensive n u didnt buy it for her

i dunno ders alot of things but if all depends on how she is how she been actin? how old r ya? does she work? does she go to skool? we would need dis info to help u out alil more

Answer 10

What makes you think she is? If you know that you may be able to answer your own question. Good Luck.