i was in love with this one guy and about a month ago, he left me for another girl...now he says he never stopped loving me and that he wants me back...what do you think i should do? do you think i should take him back or not?
2006-09-25 05:28:40 · 24 answers · asked by dreamblackcrow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would go with yor heart my dear love is never a smooth ride if i was you i would follow your heart if you go back with him let him know that you wont be messed around again and that if he breaks your heart again u will never have him back he cant just pick u up and put u down when he fancies it good luck
2006-09-25 05:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by ELIZABETH C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly NOT. If this guy left you for another girl, what makes you think he wont do it again, then your heart will be broken AGAIN, and honestly, do you want that? There are so many guys out there in the world that will love you, and always love you, they wont stop loving you if they see a hotter person than you, love should be unconditional, and this guy that you love doesnt seem to know what that word means. Tell him no, go find somebody else. I mean if he left you for another girl, that probaby meant he cheated on you as well with her, and maybe even others, do you want a cheater for a boyfriend? This guy sounds like hes up to no good and if u get back together with him your asking for a world of hurt because thats all you will get, the relationship wont get any better, because you'll be walking on eggshells around him wondering if he is with another girl. Spare yourself the hurt, find someone who will bandage your broken heart. Good luck.
2006-09-25 05:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i need more info then that. like is the reson that he wants you back because the other girl left. and how long did you date befor. more in likely if he left in the first place he dosent love you. or he wouldn't have left. that's more what i would go on but there is that chance that he realize that he really love you and wants you but i would look into everything first. even ask him question like. why he loves you, why he left, I wouldn't just jump into it. but you are the only one that knows how your heart feels so you go with what you feel is right. don't be afraid to take a leap, but make sure you now were you fall.
2006-09-25 05:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by messed up hair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, if he did it once, he will probably do it again ~~ and just make you feel miserable all over again or break your heart! If he REALLY loved you, he would not have left you in the first place. He just thought the grass was greener on the other side! He obviously had a good thing -- too bad he lost it!
2006-09-25 05:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I took mine back and now he's the same guy he use to be there has been no miraculous changes all the things that made me angry before still do so if you feel as if he is the one go ahead but my expirience is THEY CALL THEM EX FOR A REASON!
good luck.
2006-09-25 05:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't accept him back. What he did was wrong and my bet is that he just wants you as an item. He doesn't truly love you. If you accept him back into your life then you're setting yourself up for dissapointment. You should find someone who will love you and be loyal to you no matter what.
2006-09-25 05:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prolly would give him a second chance, but it all depends on ur relationship. U hafta be happy and the relationship either has to grow when stuff like that happens or it will ruin it. Follow ur heart but listen to ur gut and ur brain.
2006-09-25 05:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better if you leave him.You said that he left you a month ago for some other girl and now there for you.No guarantee that he will be with you forever because he seems to be a person who can change his girl friends very easily.................
2006-09-25 05:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by sunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him grovel. Don't let him stroll back into a relationship like you are a toy he can throw down and pick up again.
2006-09-25 05:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't the only reason why he is back is because that relationship didn't work out. He will do it again.
2006-09-25 05:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋