Me and my GF planned to go to my buddies wedding then to head to our hotel and have a romantic night alone (finaly!) We both live at home so its tough to find time alone. Needless to say I got too drunk with my friends and ended up getting sick and ruining our night. I apologized and Ive never done that in 2 years of dating and now she doesnt want to talk to me or return calls, we havent talked in 2 days. Is she being kind of unreasonable? What do I do?
2006-09-25 05:25:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No - from a female point of view she is not being unreasonable. Doesn't matter that in 2 years of dating you've never done that - you did it on the night ya'll had BIG romantic plans & you ignored her, etc. You blew it, bud. It was pretty inconsiderate of you to do that - no gettin around it. I don't know, tho, where ya'll will go from here - you've apologized but she's not talkin to you. Maybe you should just let her be angry for a while - tell her one more time that you're sorry & you'll give her some time to get over being hurt & angry over your actions - she'll call you when she's ready. Next time, stick to soda or iced tea - nobody likes to hang with a drunk.
2006-09-25 05:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is over reacting! I can understand that you had a date after the wedding but when you go to a wedding you are there to have a good time you cant spend every second with the person you are with, she should have tried to have a good time to. All you can really say is that your sorry and its not like you cant make it up another day. I feel kind of sorry for you.
2006-09-25 12:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect time to go get some strange while she's not seeing or talking to you. Tell her you don't need this and go find some other girl. There's plenty out there that won't act like this when you want to have some fun.
2006-09-25 13:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by pimpjoooce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. She's just really upset. Keep telling/proving to her that u r sorry and she'll come around. If she doesn't then u might be better off without her in the long run. Everyone has to go thru stuff like that, I think, to grow up and appreciate other stuff in life.
2006-09-25 12:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is kinda messed but if she hasnt said its over then you have a chance to redeem your self then do it leave a bunch of roses or her favorite flowers on her door step write her a love letter take her to the spot where you first met do something very romantic
2006-09-25 12:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i where her i would have dumped you that is really rude. whats more important a romantic night with your women or getting drunk.
2006-09-27 16:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you need to break up with her since you forgot about her that time. She needs to find another guy.
2006-09-25 15:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, she will be back.She just wants you to beg more so say it flowers and **** like that
2006-09-25 12:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you!
2006-09-25 12:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by citizen ex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would too!!!
2006-09-25 12:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋