Would you move to another country in order to pursuit a relationship? If you would, what kinds of care would you take? What do you think would be essential to worry about?
2006-09-25 05:05:14 · 16 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be moving from Brazil to the USA. I have been there before and therefore I know that my money is worthy very little there, and that it would make it hard for me to have some mobility, or independence... That is what concerns me a bit.
2006-09-25 05:59:03 · update #1
Someone probably said this already, but I think it depends a lot on the relationship. In my ideal relationship, I'd be so in love that I would move wherever without hesitating.
And what kinds of care would I take? Well, whenever I travel I ivestigate what sort of diseases and stuff I'm going to be exposed to. And the practical stuff too. Like, if I was going to Mexico I'd take a gun or a knife because I have to admit, it's pretty dangerous. And if I was going to Canada I'd probably take a PSP or tons of magazines because it'd be really boring if for whatever reason my hypothetical boyfriend had to leave for even one hour. There's just nothing to do.
I think the two things that I wold worry the most about are, first, whether there's cable where I'm staying, and second, to make the most out of each second with my bf.
2006-09-25 05:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by its just me!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on so many facors. First off, does the relationship seem to have potential and is there a lot of love? Is the country they live in safe and are you interested in living there?? Are you more of a risk taker or someone who likes to stay close to home? And finally I think this is the most important - Where are you in your life. Are you in the middle of school or setting up your career? If you are in limbo land, and not doing anything to spectacular and just waiting for things to change I would 100% say do it. I moved to Ireland last year, not for a guy, but it gave me so much experience and I learnt a lot about myself. Even if the relationship fissles, you still have the experience of living abroad and the chance to meet a lot of great new people and make new memories.
2006-09-25 05:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by Browneyedgirl1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a very difficult decision. I personally would not; but if you do, make sure arrangements are made ahead of time. Have a place to move to, a means of communication to home, and possibly a job as well. Try not to lose too much of yourself in the move and maintain a life of your own; because if things don't work out you might end up feeling lost or alone.
2006-09-25 05:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by S&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship. I had an online "relationship" for a while. Then he asked me to move to India to be with him. That was the end of that. If you actually know this guy and it feels right, go for it! Just make sure you have a way back home if it doesn't work out. Like, have a stash of cash somewhere or keep it with your parents or a close friend, just in case. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-25 05:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Amy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends a lot on the country and the relationship.
I would have to be at a point of near complete trust with the person (and I mean mature, adult trust. Not adolescent infatuation trust). And the country would have to be someplace safe and easy to get back from in case things went sour.
2006-09-25 05:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only move if the country is very secure and you have been on holiday before and ONLY if you know the other person well inculding their family & circle - I will assume you are female and would ask you to be doubly sure for your safety and your legal rights if the worst happens
2006-09-25 05:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it relies upon on you. i'm from Germany and could pass decrease back to the states with my husband yet i will back could pass away my relatives in the back of (now extra durable by way of fact of my 2 nieces). yet i be responsive to that as quickly as i would be distracted and notice my husbands relatives back and my friends from the states i would be positive. i will pass over my relatives alot yet at some point i will initiate my own with my husband. So i'd ask you in case you get together with his relatives and once you're someone who makes friends quite, or you're able to desire to no longer have an ordinary time staying. wish this facilitates a splash, that is purely no longer an ordinary determination. Jenny
2016-10-01 08:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was some warm tropical place yes. And the only thing to worry about might be money and health care. Other then that you have each other and things can work from there
2006-09-25 05:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move to the ends of the earth for the relationship I am in now. It would be difficult, don't get me wrong. But I would follow your heart. You know deep down what you should do.
2006-09-25 05:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will move to another state to forgeth about my relationship with my boyfriend and start a new life and move on with my self and never come bank to this state ever again and forgeth about him and find my sefl a new boyfriend and start a hole diffrent new life and for get about my ex- boyfriend and like I sad start a new life with out him at all if i had a boyfreind and he goes with another girls all deffeneat le live out of the state for ever and ever and never come bank
2006-09-25 05:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by lparacely l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋