You should have a heart-to-heart chat with her about what she really feels.
2006-09-25 05:05:25
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answer #1
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answered by chrstnwrtr 7
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It sounds like she might be under the impression that you want more than just a friendship. If this is true then there is your answer. She values you as a Friend, meaning she doe not want it to go any further. It also depends on when and where she is the nicest to you. Does she act the same way in public and in private? Is she giving you hints that she might want more than a friendship? There could be a lot of things going on. She could value your friendship to the point where she does not want to risk ruining it. Or she could like you but not want other people to know she likes you (in which case she is not being a really good friend).
So you want to know what to say? Just tell her exactly what you said here. Explain your confusion to her, if you expect more than a friendship from her, also tell her that. It might push her away but at least you will get it off your chest. If you just want to be her friend, explain to her that you expect nothing but her friendship and she should not worry. If all else fails, just continue to be her friend and just take it for what it is.
2006-09-25 05:14:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Let her know that many times the best relationships stem from friendships. I wish I knew what reasons you have for thinking she doesn't like you for more than a friend on the days you mentioned. I have 3 daughters and I've taught them that they should never make the first move. I know that makes it harder for you fellas but... you've got to put your heart on your sleeve. Just remember in your life that no matter how many times you get that heart of yours knocked off of your sleeve you need to stay the person that you are and please do not become bitter. The love of your life will come along some day and until then you should remain hopeful. Rejection makes us stronger and helps build character if you remember that you are wonderful the way you are and you don't have to change the person that you are for others to like you. It was hard for me to except that not everyone liked me when I was younger. I thought since I was a nice person that everyone should like me or want to date me. Well... it's a little more complicated than that. You'll see. :) Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-09-25 05:14:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Number one: Calm down. Concentrate on your studies, keep your grades high. Concentrate on your self-esteem, and keep your appearance clean and neat. Take care of yourself. Please don't be offended but use Mitchem deodorant because your hormones are changing. Don't worry about her. If she wants to be a friend, she will. Don't spend so much money on cell phone and text messages. Make an effort to meet new people and have some fun during your high school years. You will be meeting a lot of people. Since you are both age 15, you both have a lot of growing to do and a lot of people to meet. She may turn out to be a friend or just someone you knew in high school. The more you take care of yourself and develop new interests the more she and other girls will find you an interesting person to hang out with. Enjoy your high school years.
2006-09-25 05:21:31
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answered by sydneysparrow@sbcglobal.net 2
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yeah, we girls sometimes give mixed signals. But just because you two are best friends, doesn't mean you have to talk everyday. Sometimes it's easier to say things over texts, or on the phone. It's hard to say them in person. Have you ever thought about the fact that she may be shy to talk to you about certain things. It may be that she does like you, but she's too shy to say so. You have to find out. But I would wait a little long to see what else she does.
2006-09-25 05:08:54
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answered by sweetpea 3
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When I tell a guy "I really value you as a friend" it's my way of saying, " I only look at you as a friend, so don't ever think this is going any further" but who knows, maybe it's different for her.
2006-09-25 05:50:39
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answered by Anonymous
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I think she likes you but is afraid of admitting it because you may no feel the same way and then she may lose you as a friend. You need to figure out if you like her at all and then just sit down with her and tell her what you feel.
2006-09-25 05:09:09
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answered by GEE-GEE 5
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wow, u got urself in a pickle
what i say is talk to her, just lay it all out on the line of how you feel and the vibes ur getting from her...infact practically show her this thing you posted...honesty and straight out is the best way to handle things..Good Luck!!
also have u seen the movie Just Friends? i totally was reminded of it when you were saying all that
good luck
2006-09-25 05:07:21
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answered by Anonymous
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She sounds like she is content just being your friend. I wouldn't change anything. If she wants more than friends you will be the first to know.
2006-09-25 05:08:24
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answered by doglady 5
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You need to tell her how you feel! It sounds like you like her more than friends and she needs to know that.
2006-09-25 05:07:17
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answered by TroubleRose 6
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