My ex and I started talkin again this week. We broke up cuz we moved to fast...I want to date him, start there, he wants to start at zero and be friends and be a process. He tells me that he didn't want it to end he had to do it. That I am his first choice and he wants to see if I can be patient (I'm not very patient at all) But he's asking other girls on dates... He wants to see if I can be friends and go from there. He's had our pic up since we broke up and hasn't taken it down (I talk to his mom every so often) Well, when I went over to talk to him, the pic was no longer there. I talked to his mom the next day and it was up. She says she's never seen it down (she was asleep) So he took the pic down knowin I was comin over and I thought it would stay down, but he put it back up...what does that mean? He also got a tatoo a month after we broke up, in my lanuage, that I wrote him..He wants to start at 0 so I'm being friends, but he hasn't made an effort to me yet..be patient?
2006-09-25 04:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are one of two explanations. Either this guy is messing with your mind and HE doesn't know what to think, or he wants this so badly to work that he's taking things slower than a turtle. Whichever the explanation, you need to sit down with this guy and explain to him what you're going throught, and that he's sending you mixed signals with the whole dating, and the picture. As for his mom, it's not like she knows what really happens in her son's life. But keep your connection with her; it proves to him that you are willing to make this work, and that you really love his mom.
2006-09-25 05:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by luscious_ladie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it he doesn't want a relationship all he wants is the ego stroke that you are still waiting for him you want to test this theory tell your "friend" that you met a guy and you are going out with him I am sure since he asks other girls out it's no problem right then watch if he calls all this crap off and asks you back than there you go but I don't believe that will happen I believe he will pout make an *** out of himself and than except because he knows he doesn't want a relationship now so it's easier to give up his ego stroke than to give up the potential broads around the corner. I am sorry to be so harsh just don't waste time I have in the past.
2006-09-25 12:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kind of strange to me especially if his mom is involved. Are you guys like 15 or something? I hope so or you both have a few issues if your older. If he wants to start all over at zero then he is a zero and if you don't want to wait then you can add one to your status to since you have a lack of patience. It sounds kind of confusing and I would avoid it at all cost
2006-09-25 12:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, move on for he ties up any more of your time. because i hate to tell you this but you have bagage get rid of it now! the quicker the better and quit talking to his mom is there kids involued? just move on and don't let the dust settle no longer go before the wrinkles set in and nobody wants ya
2006-09-25 12:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he likes you he really jsut wants you to be patient, if he took your pics down it's because he wanted to see how you were gonna react....stay calm and it's gona be hard but be PATIENT!!
2006-09-25 12:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I date other people and as well and see how he feels about that.
2006-09-25 12:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by soco 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him all the time and space he needs.
2006-09-25 12:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient
2006-09-25 12:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be patient
2006-09-25 12:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but what did you want us to answer?
2006-09-25 12:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋