Well, a guy is courting me now...We've known each other for a long time I really like him...but my only problem is....I can't get along with his friends...and sometimes I try to avoid going out with him with his friends....I'm shy in nature but I can be outgoing too..it's so difficult to get along with them...honestly, they are friendly but I feel like an outcast....They dress cool and act cool...but I'm just too simple...what should I do?...do I need to continue our dating? or should I say "nO" to him already?..(well, i like him u know)..;'(
2006-09-25 04:58:59 · 14 answers · asked by kOrinkOkurO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
continue dating. improve self confidence, have positive thinking and improve communicative skills. good luck.
2006-09-25 05:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that was me like 9 yrs ago. Go out and you will fit in soon enough. I used to be like that I even would shake and be so nervous around my hubby's family and friends it was hard. Soon enough I worked on my appearance and got some confidence and feel a lot better. Itll take some time but just get out there don't hold back.
2006-09-25 12:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go for it, but just tell him how you really feel. Don't say you hate his friends, just say you feel out of place because you don't get along with him.
If he likes you a lot he will make the right decision to be with you and make time for his friends as well as maybe having you guys get along in the future.
Just tell him the truth.....maybe it will take a few times until you really get to know his friends
2006-09-25 12:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could confront the problem and that would either make your relationship hard as a rock or kill it. or you could understand that they may actually think your cool, come on, your there friends girlfriend. and they may like the way you dress. don't say no untill you don't oove him anymore, and even then you should try and work it out. give his friends a chance, just sit down and talk to one, if you guys have a nice talk s/he'll tell everyone aboiut it. hope it all works out.
2006-09-25 12:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by SaLeMiZmE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't make him choose between his friends and you because you know the result of that. But choose to go out with him alone and if its not possible then don't go out. He will get the idea and if he doesn't then that is his bust
2006-09-25 12:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who his friends are shouldn't make or break your courtship. Just tell him who you feel, and maybe he'll give you some break time from his "crowd". But try to be upbeat and friendly when they're around. It can be a challenge, I know........
2006-09-25 12:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not dating his friends...You are dating him. If his friends are nice to you then get in where you fit in. Crack jokes, but don't be to harsh. Break the ice.You have to be social with them. But if your relationship with your dude is good then don't break up cause of his friends, especially if the are cool with you. You open up to them, they'll open up to you,
2006-09-25 12:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys will finally give up on their normal lives just so they can have a relationship with girls like you. just give it some time and he will no longer hang with his friends so he can be with you.
2006-09-25 12:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get him away from his friends so that you two can be alone.
2006-09-25 12:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and hang out with him. they will accept you in time, when they get to know you. and who knows, you might like them too. give it a chance
2006-09-25 12:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋