To make the long story short..I was with my boyfriend for three months. We really loved each other and he cared for me a lot. Then I and him both got busy and I didn't see him for two weeks and he kept telling me that he will see me when we both have more time. One day I got mad at him and I broke up with him. He called me and explained that he was busy. I said ok. Then he called me two days later and said he will call me again, but he never did. He deleted all the online pictures that we had together. He did not return my phone call after that. I still love him and I can't get over him. It's been about three weeks and I can't forget him. Should I send him an email and tell him that I love him and I want him back? Please help.
2006-09-25 04:47:38 · 33 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Niki, I know it must suck to feel like this, but I would not send him an e-mail. He obviously is not man enough to tell you goodbye and instead he just ignored you. I am sure you can find someone who will give you his time that you deserve. The hard part is to accept what happened, once you do that it will get easier. You already went three weeks with no contact if you start again now it will jus tbe harder. Good luck.
2006-09-25 04:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you don't have time for each other, then you really shouldn't pursue him. Maybe the two of you are better off being friends. Also, three weeks isn't a lot of time to heal from a break up, if that is what happened between you two. Give yourself some time. Don't you think it might be more beneficial for you to have someone that will "take" the time and "make" the time to see you? Not someone that will call you when it is convenient for them, but someone who will call you just because. I think that your ex has already moved on and perhaps you should too.
2006-09-25 04:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so much to consider when answering a question like this. First how old are you? you sound pretty young. It sounds to me like he might be interested in seeing someone else. Another thing to consider is what does he mean by busy? Does busy mean he was hanging out with friends or was he really busy, and how did he act before this? did it happen all of a sudden or does it seem like its been coming for a while. I know you don't want to hear it but this is a question you really have to answer yourself. Try to keep your mind off of it give it about a week and if you still feel like calling or emailing him give it a shot. nothing to lose.
2006-09-25 05:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO
just MOVE ON.
You only dated for 3 months?!?! That is nothing, you must be VERY young.
If he is blowing you off there is a reason, which means get the clue he doesn't want to be with you.
How can you love someone in 3 months?!
Move on, forget about him, and wait till you are old enough to know what love it before you tell someone else. You dont just throw that word around.
2006-09-25 04:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love him and want him all you want but the fact will remain the same - he dont want you.
So go ahead, right the longest email you can. Its not going to change anything. Move on, take some time off from men, get your esteem back up and then lookf for someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated.
2006-09-25 04:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First....r u sure u r in love??? It was only 3 months...Maybe it's just a big LIKE...and y would he keep ur pictures on there when YOU broke up with HIM?? and it seems like he's not trying to get bac together...so girl move on...u can email me if u need to
2006-09-25 04:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could send an email but that sounds a little impersonal! Go to him and tell him u love him! if he loves ya then he will want u back to but then if he doesn't then u need to move on there are other guys believe me!
2006-09-25 04:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should send him a final email.. Not trying to be mean, but it doesn't seem like he wants to be with you.. you need to let him go... the love will always be there. ask him what he really feels for you and why he has been acting that way.
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2016-12-18 16:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. . your only concern should be finishing 7th grade! Second of all. . . . it doesn't sound like you ever spent enough time together to even know if you love each other. Third. . . it is obvious he doesn't feel the same. Save your pride and move on!
2006-09-25 04:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋