I met this guy a couple of months ago. We were drinking, kissed, whatever. He seemed interested, but we did not see each other for a while (except like three times) and the last time he seemed uninterested. That was fine.
But now we are in closer proximity, and we hung out again. I know he was hitting on me, but I wasn't feeling it so much this time around. He seemed different, not really at all what I am looking for.
The point is, I have been having a rough couple of weeks, and really just want to relax. I don't really want anything with him, in fact it would be in my best interest to keep anything that happens between just the two of us. I just want some fun... and I really am not sure what he is looking for. (and don't worry, not THAT much fun)
Anyway to figure out what he is looking for, without putting myself to far out there... or really just get what I want, a little discreet fun....
2006-09-25 04:42:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you took your time to submit this questions shows how the situation has taken over you.
let's face it -
1. I dont know you - but you seem like you deserve someone who is going to be obssessed with you rather than scatter your emotions all over the place like he is now.
3. sounds like he is not worth another second of your time.
4. if you really like him - step back a little and he will be coming to you.
2006-09-25 04:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't fun. Its looking for a little drama... maybe the chance to be a user instead of being used? Remember with a man you may be discreet, but there is no assurance he will be.
This may be one of those times a really good box of chocolates does more good for the soul than a pointless fling with someone you don't want to wake up looking at.
2006-09-25 11:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your not looking for anything too complicated, like you said, just a little discreet fun. Im willing to bet he'd be game.
2006-09-25 11:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you want. Chances are he's not wanting anything out of this anyways or he would have made more of an attempt to get to know you before.
2006-09-25 11:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't do anything you will regret the next day... "not THAT much fun" drunk can turn into regret. Defenitely have fun though you have one life, live it to the fullest. Just be safe and self respecting.
2006-09-25 11:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by katie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him thats all you want and see waht happens, he might only want a little discreete fun too.
2006-09-25 11:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how you are telling us? Tell him the same thing it won't hurt his feelings he'll be ok, just tell him that you really just need to relax and have fun.
2006-09-25 11:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, sure justify on here no one cares. Do whatever you want. Just next time ask a question.
2006-09-25 11:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control and lead the way
2006-09-25 11:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably thinking the same thing. So if he calls, he calls. If he doesnt, then who cares?
2006-09-25 11:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋