both of our familys know we are in school together he is doing brick masonry and im in medical assistant he does not act 16 he has grown up in memphis and im from kentucky the big difference is im a 20 year old white female from a small country town and he is 16 black male from the hood we have been together for almost 2 months and we cant imagine being apart. he acts much older than his age is there anything wrong with this?
2006-09-25 03:32:43 · 12 answers · asked by dixielandsweetheart05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the same answer I give to all these questions.
There is absolutely NO WAY that you can know what you want in life at 16. He has not experienced ANYTHING about real life. He will change so much in the next 5 years that he could become a completely different person. Life experiences change people and make them what they are. You may fit into the picture now but I see about a 5% chance you make it 10 years down the road.
How does he feel about politics? What kind of lifestyle is he looking for? Is he into group sex? What about porn? How do you know since he is not legally old enough to even BUY porn.
2006-09-25 03:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because it is a fact that his brain isn't even fully developed at this age. That is why there are laws about this sort of thing. If what you say is true then you should wait until he is of legal age. Give him room to grow into a man and to complete his education.
If you love something set it free, if it comes back it is yours to keep , if it doesn't then it was never really yours or meant to be.
You must also grow and mature. A 16 year old boy is nothing compared to a MAN.
2006-09-25 10:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well age is totally relative and if his parents are okay with it and you feel is mature enough to support your womanly needs and well as mentally stimulating to you I say this isn't necessarily a stage set for Statutory Rape...so let's keep it simple and let him mature into an responsible 18 year before you start making any babies okay...Personally I wouldn't date some one that young and underdeveloped mentally or physically. But what ever floats your boat!
2006-09-25 10:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN don't walk to the nearest door and DON'T look back! He is a MINOR and you can be considered an ADULT.....You can get into serious trouble....even if your parents DO know about this...
Or you will have the Police knocking at your door!
2006-09-25 10:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is illegal. It is called statutory rape. Race and different backgrounds should not and do not even enter into this equation.
2006-09-25 10:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tahavath 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To bad your not a teacher or this could be front page material
2006-09-25 10:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's illegal to date him the best I can tell you is just be friends till he is 18, or leave him alone. Best of luck to you
2006-09-25 10:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by vixzen_22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very careful.He is a minor.It is against the law.No matter how mature he is.
2006-09-25 10:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Statutory, much?
2006-09-25 10:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by noambition 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no different once u are laying in bed
2006-09-25 10:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋