I am a desent guy with good manners and a lot of friends, but the girls don't like me in that way. they say i'm to good. I am not a nerd. I'm in all the A teams in sport. I am always the guy there for them when they are in need. Why do girls fall for the arrogant ill mannerd men?
2006-09-25 03:20:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my girl don't like bad guys
2006-09-25 03:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's glandular. Bad guys are sexier to them - they get off on them. After they have been messed over several times some learn...and some never do.
There are some girls that find rude guys disgusting.
Look!
Yes, it is horrible! I help them, and afterwards, they take off like a shot! Don't give up!! Maybe women wouldn't complain about men so much if they didn't scrape the bottom of the barrell so often!!
2006-09-25 03:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of funny because you'll probably end up getting into trouble with a bad boy but in a girl's mind you feel like he can protect you at any cost,a bad boy is not afraid,he won't run and leave you but then again if he gets you pregnant you'll probably never see him again.That's why I went and got me a Good man
with the "Bad boy look".Hard working,smart.a couple of tattos,he's got a good job,manners,funny, caring but he looks a bit rough.I'm sure you'll find the right girl one day,there's no need to rush into anything,you usually meet someone when you least expect it,sssoooo quit looking.And when you find her you will not question your feelings or ask yourself "Is she the one?" You'll just know until then date here and there have fun and don't get too serious
2006-09-25 03:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Belanova 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same reason they fall for bald,fat,... because it's primitive signs of a healthy men that will bring you lots of food and make you strong kids. That's probably a reason the human race survived! Many women don't even realize they go for such types of guy!
If you're really interested in a girl, it's OK to be friendly but don't be tooo friendly, that's probably were you get lost. Be there when she needs you but let her friends be there for her too. If you're into sports, show your strong side to the women you'd like to go further with.
2006-09-25 03:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gimme ur age- and i'll update if needed- but in general> there is just prob. something about you that these girls see/ or don't see- You want my advice...try taking on 2 diff. roles- act a little more like the arrogant guys, show off your toughness a little bit, (is there chance- someone said (a rumor,perhaps?) that you are gay?- act kinda macho, dress like other cool kids-, socialize a little more, in public- but act like the real you when the girl you like is alone w/ you- but, let her know that only she can know the real feelings you have- - it will make her feel so special to know the real you- and that you only share it with her!- Good Luck! girls are just attracted to the guy who takes chances- like...in example- what can we do - that we might get caught- but might not?!! its more exciting- until we grow up and realize- dam that was so stupid!- LOL Good Luck to ya- hope this helped some!
2006-09-25 03:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by sawgirl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like the intrigue of a "bad" guy but will marry the "good" guy every time! So all is not lost for you. Plus, you may be trying to hard with shallow women. Try someone smart and independent and you may be more successful.
2006-09-25 03:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some girls stupidly think they can fix them. Those kind of girls are a problem anyway. Make sure you just aren't attracted to the "popular" girls. Look for deeper females and you'll have better luck.
Don't you try to fix someone either. They are bad news too.
2006-09-25 03:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by rucirius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they like bad boys because it gives them a rush. Kinda like riding a roller coaster. They do it for the thrill. However, unlike a roller coaster they can't controll the outcome. Come on girls this ride sooner or later is going to come to a hault. You may want to give a nice guy shot before you get hurt.
2006-09-25 03:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is theirs and not yours. I think you are hanging around the wrong women. There are lots of women looking for decent, good mannered gentlemen. Get away from those girls you're with. They're no good for you.
2006-09-25 03:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry dude, girls start out wanting a bad boy because they cause drama and girls like the attention that comes from that. Then they realize they are being treated like shi!t And after awhile they will be knocking on your door to be treated like they should be treated! good luck!
2006-09-25 03:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the "girls" are possibly harlots and feel they are undeserving of a good man- so in a way they are being honest.
YOU are possibly only interested in "those" girls for reasons that you are unaware of-
start looking around at the "ladies" that you are usually not attracted to- maybe its just you
2006-09-25 03:25:17 · answer #11 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋