and the guy u love sayz tat he is committed to u..loves u...still he is alwayys shouting at u.......thnwt to do?????
2006-09-25 03:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! Dont believe everything that come's out of a guy's mouth Isha. Sometimes they mistake liking for love and it is a fact that they mature much later than women. It can also be that you 2 are seeing too much of each other. Give some space and mingle with other people as well.
On the other hand, you can use the Gandhian principles [munna bhai... oh yea that was good one]. When he shouts at you, speak to him calmly and tell him to lower his voice, or just answer back in a calming tone.
And finally, set expectations! this is very important, as a relationship is about "we" and not "I"..
Good luck to you.
2006-09-25 04:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of love is this that your guy keeps shouting at you? If now in your unmarried (wooing) stage he is shouting at you then what will he do when he marries you? I can say for a fact that this guy of yours will eventually assault you physically one day. Do you want that? In courtships we are supposed to show our best character but if this is his best character then I am afraid of the unseen. Please don't be blinded by foolish love. Look for your true love. I am sorry but this is the painful truth and the only way to go.
2006-09-25 10:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by YBB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She/He needs more space to be in tune with yu.
Yu will never find a relation which walk straight in line and in my this is the beauty of this.
2006-09-25 11:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rohit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to find someone who will never hurt you, So go for the one who's worth all the pain.
If your hand was in a fire, what would you do? Its your heart, do whats best.
2006-09-25 11:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by dark_copernic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a possibility that something is bothering him. Have you asked him what was wrong? Try talkin to him once. May be he has something on his mind and he hasnt talked about things to anyone. May be you can help him get things off his mind. Try talking to him calmly. If you have a stable relationship, he will confide to you...
2006-09-25 10:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by noesis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have seen that people that love you are usually the ones to hurt you. Why,I think is because they know we love them. You need to talk to him & just tell him how you feel. If he doesn't want to listen you may to reconsider this guy. Good luck!
2006-09-25 10:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might have a control issue ,,sometimes people have different way in showing you how they feel , and in a way like that i dont think its healthy way for you to continue going ...what if he decides to get physical..then what ..look for the signs girl think about you well being damn all that i love you shi---..in this case because one thing love is , it is never unsure
2006-09-25 10:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Miskateyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THIS man is having stress in his life some where. I THINK YOU NEED SOME SPACE.IF he turns violent leave and dont look back. BUT YELLING IS ABUSE.
2006-09-25 10:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will leave him for sure.I dont like people shouting at me.
2006-09-25 10:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by julia _bride 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would talk to him & tell him how i feel..if he still wouldn't change, i'd leave him & let him realize that i don't like his behavior..
2006-09-25 10:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋