Ok heres the problem im not sure if this girl likes me or not heres whats going, her friend said she thought i was hott so i decided to write her a note and in it it said "i've always thought you were hot to, heres my number and email adderss if you wont to talk, et." and gave it to her friend to give to her. Well than today at lunch her friend came up and told me that she was nervous because she had never had boyfriend befor, and then she said sorry but it was nice note and that i was a nice guy so i need to know is she playin hard to get.. or what should i do ask her directyl etc. Any help would be wonderful thanks all
2006-09-25 03:12:45 · 9 answers · asked by Gabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did she say she didn't want to talk to you? I mean, what's the problem? So, she's nervous and shy. And apparently she assumes you're her bf just because you gave her your # and e-mail. You should just go up and talk to her. Don't use her friend as a go-between. Ask her directly. And if she's shy and nervous, go the extra mile to make her feel comfortable and secure.
2006-09-25 03:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her friend straight out, if she's interested or not. If not, leave it be, make no more efforts. If she is, tell the friend to tell her she doesn't need to feel nervous around you, & ask if it would be ok for the friend to give you the girls number & you give the girl a call. If she's too damn shy to even talk on the phone, then forget about her, she's sooo not ready for a boyfriend.
2006-09-25 03:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 22:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go n talk to her directly n maybe she is right n u can help her or maybe she is really embarrassed n she don know how to deal with this kind of relation ship n i think she likes u but she doesn't know how to work with it theres lots of girls like that so what u can do is trying n tell her how about just friends so u can know each others more good luck
2006-09-25 03:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act busy. Act like you have better things to do then chase some girl around. I had a thing for a girl who I knew liked me and when she started playing hard to get I simply didn't chase her. If she is interested she will then begin to chase you instead.
2006-09-25 03:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her in person instead of thru her friends. That way you can see her reaction and get more of a feel on how she feels about you.
2006-09-25 03:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, be her friend and her friend's friend to make yourself less intimidating to her who isnt used to this attention so she can get warmed up for having a boyfriend. if she really doesnt want a boyfriend,you'll know
2006-09-25 03:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by anna c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got 99 problems but a b!#c4 ain't one.
2006-09-25 03:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by King of Babylon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're old fashion! why not talk to her and be friends first?
2006-09-25 03:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋