How soon is too soon to sleep with a guy? I have been seeing this guy for a month and havn't done anything with him yet apart from kiss him! Do u think that is bad or should i wait even longer before sleeping with him?
2006-09-25 02:30:14 · 26 answers · asked by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just answering the questions about my age im 20, he is 21. We have known each other for quite a while, since school.
2006-09-25 02:39:47 · update #1
And no it's not my first time. But with my ex it was, that's y im unsure.
2006-09-25 02:41:50 · update #2
Ummmmm Tariq - NO!!!
2006-09-25 02:49:46 · update #3
Thank you Laurel - good points!!!
2006-09-25 03:52:39 · update #4
Theres no right or wrong time when to sleep with a guy. however the fact that you're with this guy for a month shows that hes not only out to bed you, therefore hes not a "player" so I think whenever you feel comfortable with sleeping with him will be the right time.
Hes proven he respects you by waiting this long, so I think you have a keeper!
2006-09-25 02:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its was six months before I slept wth my boyfriend and we're still together 6 years on. The longer you leave it the better in my opinion. Besides, the decision to sleep with a guy shouldn't be based on a lengthe of time anyway. How do you feel about him? Are your comfortable with him? Can you trust him? Do you see it progressing into a relationship? If yes to all, then its the right time.
2006-09-25 10:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you have checked his certificate, which clears him of STDs and HIV. When you give your self to every person that you have a feeling for what are you going to do at the end when you want to settle down.
Be different; don’t give him da booty. Be proud to say NO to his booty call. And try and find a deeper meaning in self-giving than body giving.
But as always the decision is yours to make. Nobody can force you to have sexual intercourse.
2006-09-25 10:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Point Blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, I would wait.
I mean you don't know him that good even after one month.
It's really too soon to sleep with a guy after that short time and it could be possible that he just needs you.
It's your first time right! The first time is something special- you will never forget. So just sleep with him when you are really sure, but not after one month.
Do you understand what I mean??!!??
2006-09-25 09:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by marybiel_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the sort of relationship you want,I slept with my partner on the 1st date and were still together 15 years down the line,if your both looking for a long term relationship why wait get it on.
2006-09-25 09:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by martinsbits2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, if you are over 18 then its only moving to fast if it doesnt work out. But I would say from a guy's point of view if he really likes you make him wait. It is liek anything you have to wait for you appreciate it more when it is earned.
2006-09-25 09:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what anyone else thinks? If you want to, do it. If you don't, then don't. The person you should be addressing this issue with is your boyfriend who - if he's as young as you seem - is probably gagging for it but unsure how to broach the subject without sounding like it's ALL he's interested in.
2006-09-25 09:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your age for one thing and if you feel comfortable with yourself in the relationship if you have feelings for this person then talk it through with each other then go for a romantic night out and see if it leads to anything naturally and not forced,and enjoy yourself with a condom!
2006-09-25 09:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by cakemaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say there is no right answer other then when you feel ready. i slept with my boyfriend after we had been together about a month, but we'd done other stuff before that. i felt ready tho so im not ashamed or embarrassed. im 19 by the way.
2006-09-25 12:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by cheeky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is going well and you are having fun getting to know this person,then relax and enjoy.When the time comes for sex it will feel right,there is no time limit every relationship moves at a different pace.
2006-09-25 09:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋