my ex hates me 4 somethin i didnt do. she says i was havin sex with other girls and seein other girls. I love her with all my heart and she means the world 2 me and somebody did that 2 make her hate me. To be honest, i wasnt doin those things and what she said about me broke my heart, and i was at my grandmothers over the weekend. idk what 2 do and i would never want 2 do that 2 her and i kept my promise that i would never do that. what should i do
2006-09-25 02:08:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love her with all my heart and i really wanna be her bf and she means everything 2 me
2006-09-25 02:09:23 · update #1
that was a ****** hacker havin sex with those girls not me and im just pissed at what she said and im gonna ****** kill myself cuz no one loves me or wants me.
2006-09-25 02:15:07 · update #2
idk why shes doin this 2 me i didnt do ****** anything.
2006-09-25 02:17:41 · update #3
i'm ****** crying because of her and i just wanna ****** kill myself
2006-09-25 02:20:24 · update #4
ooo....poor u =[[
try to explain 2 her....
2006-09-25 02:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similiar situation some years ago... I felt so bad... I cried a lot of times... The best advice I can give you is 1) Tell her the truth, but just once, if she doesn't want to hear it then it's her problem, not yours. 2) Move on. Seriously it's the best for you both that you forget that girl, go have some fun with friends, enjoy a hobby and eventually some months later find someone else. There are not words for making it clear enough: FORGET HER! You deserve something better than this!!!
2006-09-25 15:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by johannsinuhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO NOT Do NOT give her that 'you're the only one for me' speech that men in that position often do.
If I were you i'd play it cool, not see anyone else, get on with my life perhaps try & be more successful with something else you're putting energy into. Then when she's calmed down 2 or 3 months down the line you can go back to her & talk, if that doesn't work send her something on a birthday, anniversary etc think about how you want to approach her, but don't obsess 'cos ultimately you can be a good, fathful appreciated man for plenty of other fish in the sea...
I couldn't stand being wrongly accused, i'd offer proof to the contrary & then leave her, or just be friends.
2006-09-25 09:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her accusations are true, shame on you, but in the same breath if the accusations are false, shame on her. She may have insecurities and if she is not willing to deal with them, you are better off without her. Trust is one of the most important elements of a relationship and both have to trust. A relationship has to be equal in this area. My advice is to keep looking. Go have some fun with someone that will accept you as you are. Good luck!
2006-09-25 09:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by natural g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,the problem is that she doesnt trust you.an trust is the foundation of every relationship,if that starts shaking then you have a warning to reconsider....
try talking to her and winner her confidence or else it'll be better if you just leave her alone,cos even if you are with her,she wont be able to trust you n will say things that'll hurt you....i know it would be difficult but find someone better who would love n respect you equally!!good luck!!
2006-09-25 09:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should seek help about the last statement.. Killing yourself wont help anyone involved..
As for your ex. I think its best to move on.. A relationship can not last without trust. For whatever reason she doesnt trust you, so no relationship can survive.
2006-09-25 09:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by oreocrumbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't hate you,she's hurt! Tell her you need to talk and find out why she thinks this? Where did she get this info?
Did she just jump to conclusions?(if this is the case you might need to rethink this) Hope you get to the bottom of this.
2006-09-25 09:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is no smoke without fire u must ave done something to make her sense you were unfaithful, find out why she does not trust you .But you relationship is messed up forever she will never trust you again you have not given me a reason to think you were not sleepin around the grandma alibi... well...
2006-09-25 09:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by kags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's this book right in the waterstones section called "mind, body and spirit". it could really help you out, you know, let you see things the way she does...
it's called "100 ways to leave your lover and be happier than ever". i suggest that.
it's £5
2006-09-25 09:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by hazu121 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is a gift, not a right
if she doesnt want to give you her love then that is sad, and i can tell you are hurting over it, but there is nothing you can do.
wanting her more and more will not bring her back.
2006-09-25 09:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do get her back nothing is going to be the same. I doubt you will get her back but good luck!
2006-09-25 09:10:16 · answer #11 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋