i have five years with this guy and a child for 3 months ould and one month ago he left me for another woman.and i don,t want him back no more .do you think that i,m wrong because of mi child ?should i stay with him gest for mi child?help me
2006-09-25 01:58:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he walked out then close the door and lock it. There are other men out there ( OK most of them are jerks) But thats better than being his floor mat
2006-09-25 02:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do NOT stay with him for the child. This could only tesch the child bad relationships. You are not wrong for feeling that way. I think your situation sucks, but he sucks. If he's going to leave his baby's mama for another woman, f-u-c-k this guy. You deserve much better. Oh, and if he comes crawling back , think LONG AND HARD before you take his *** back. Good luck to you. I'll say a prayer.! Congrats by the way! My baby is 4 months old and I'm having relationship problems as well. Also, you need to be happy. Whatever makes you happy, do it.
2006-09-25 09:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a perfect example of why you don't have children before you are married. You are a grown woman who can go on with your life but what about your child? He/she gets cheated out of a family and a father who lives with them. Make sure this loser pays child support so your child can have the other things they deserve, like food and shelter. Don't have any more children until your are married. Never ever stay with someone for the sake of the children, they don't need the drama!
2006-09-25 09:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't stay with someone for the 'sake of the child'. The worst mistake you can make is to leave yourself in a miserable relstionship with a man who cheats on you with another woman
2006-09-25 09:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are right if he is going to be like that then you don't need him you can be stong and you can raise the baby by yourself i'm have been raised in a life i didn't want and isn't to good for a kid to grow up in but i'm fine my dad has alwas been gone and has always treated me bad hes never there but its cool with me i see it that if he doesn't want me i don't want him and well it all came down on him because he was trying to see me and talk to be and whatever he said i want to see my kid well i told him that i wasn't his i was me and mine i didnt need him and he left and now i'm treated with respect by him i never needed him and still don't so staying with him for your baby is like saying she can't make it or become any thing without him and how do you think the baby will feel if you stay with him and then she finds out this story she will be heart broken because she will think you are with him only because of her she'll think she was a mistake something that wasn't sopsed to happen she'll think she made you unhappy all your life becuse of her so if you dont love him leave him harrys_white_owl@yahoo.com
2006-09-25 09:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear.....i think you shouldn't accept him back.... do you really need him? What for? To pay your bills? If he left you for another woman he doesn't deserve you...if you accept him back...he'll do the same thing again....i don't think you want to keep on that way...I think we search for love, friendship, trust in a realtion...if we don't find it....what are we doing there???Sex?!! We can find sex wherever we go.....So think very well.....You can't stay with him just because of your child....you won't be happy that way...if you accept him...it must be because you really want him back...not because of the kid....Good luck!
2006-09-25 09:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your child deserve so much better, congrats! He's going to soon realize the grass isnt greener on the other side and when he returns, you'll be there to tell him, tough! Well done
2006-09-25 09:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. if had loved you he would not have left in the first place. it will only cause more damage in the long run. just take him to court for child support and move on. he is so definitely not worth it. i had it happen to me too.
2006-09-25 10:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by hazel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had made the right decision for you n ur baby...its not enough that martyr or you will take all his sins for just the sake of your baby,children now are diffrent,they are open minded now.Just raise your baby well.you don't need a man like him.Goodluck!!
2006-09-25 09:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello sorry to listen from you.
see after some years this problem will be solved. i meen there wouldnt be sexual relationship. please stay with hime for the sake of your chaild.
at the same time you can also have extra marital relation with out effecting the childs future.
just because of him you should not loose your happiness and at the same time because of you or your hubby chaild should not be punished.
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2006-09-25 09:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by hot f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋