(Part 2 from my old question)
My girlfriend and I have known each other for 6 years. We started dating in the last 3 months. We see each other nearly every day. She's angry @ me because I lied to her about borrowing a jacket from a friend. Which led her to more supsicions. I cleared up the other things she was suspicious about and admited to her that I lied. I apologised and tried calling her for hours that night (2 nights ago) and she wouldn't pick up and messaged me to stop calling her.
***Ok, so I called her 5 mins ago just to see how she was. I asked if she missed me she said no. She said what i did was totally wrong and she doesn't "hate me". She said she doesn't want to talk now or hear it. She said don't call back. She hung up and I managed to say I love you before it ended.
What would you guys do in this situation?
How long should I give it?
I love her and miss her so much. Even though she's put me through a lot in the past. I still have hope on this.
Thanks guys.
2006-09-25 01:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her time. She obviously doesn't want to see or speak to you at the moment, but the situation is still fresh. If you haven't heard from her in a week, try texting her asking how she is, if she still doesn't want any contact with you at that point, you really need to let her go. Pestering her at this point will in all likelihood make things worse as she's not thinking about the way things were before, she's thinking about the incident that's made her so angry at you, and everytime she hears from you it's just reinforcing those feelings.
From the sound of this question and your last one, you both have some issues with honesty and trust. If things do work out, you really need to sit down and discuss what you both expect in these areas or the same thing will keep happening. I do wish you the best of luck. It's hard when you are in this situation with someone you love, but sometimes letting go is the best thing to do, no matter how difficult it might seem now.
2006-09-25 03:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Emma B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still loves. the thing is that she's hurt for what you did. She might feel disappointed at this point. Try talking to her. Don't give up. You need to gain her trust back. Good luck
2006-09-25 08:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by princess22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess she's just angry with you. Stop calling her and see how things go. Good luck.
2006-09-25 08:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it. No one likes a liar.
She doesn't trust you anymore. Can you blame her?
You've done all you can for now. You need to leave it with her and if she doesn't come around, accept it like a gentleman, and let her go.
2006-09-25 08:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you have learned your lesson on lying!!! You could always try to butter her up with some flowers. Good Luck!!
2006-09-25 08:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play her at her game
2006-09-25 08:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋