My Mom is widowed; it's been almost two years......?

Question

since my Dad passed away. She is dating someone.I am really happy for her. I have'nt met him yet; only talked to him on the phone. I don't like him already!! Am i making a snap judgement? He's loud, bossy, pushy, and when i was talking to my Mom on the phone, he excused her off the phone himself!! Should i tell her how i feel; or just let her think i like him?

Answer 1

Depending on your age...respect your mother ...if you live at home respect the rules. Should the bloke become overbearing to the point where you see YOUR mother suffering or uncomfortable, then step in and have your say.
Reading the question you seem intelligent enough to know to go with your feelings..just looking for confirmation.

Answer 2

since u think u don like him , u should find a suitable time 2 talk 2 ur mother although i think u already 2 fast 2 make the decision that he is not a suitable man 4 ur mom . if u really care about ur mom , u better tell her what u think about the man , bcz ur mom will like 2 hear ur opinion about her boyfriend . every mom will want their own child have a happy family , they wont force u 2 like a person u don like although they love very much , but they would like 2 hear what u really think about bcz u r her only child . But , i still hope that u give the time 2 ur mother n that guy n u really know about their relationship .

Answer 3

You are jumping to conclusions real fast however let your mum how you feel about him at this stage

Answer 4

Let your Mom have her fun.

You need to have a little fun on your own

Answer 5

its her life dear u dont have to interfear more may be this is not good for thier relationship after all she is ur mom n she knows what she is doing !!! so u dont have to interfear more just let it be as going on.

Answer 6

He sounds like a real dick, but nonetheless, it's her decision to make.