can u only have one love (the person u really felt something 4)?
can 2 people love each other so much that u can't b together?!
2006-09-25 01:34:19 · 18 answers · asked by curiosity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow I didnt know anyone else thought it was possible to love someone so much that you just cant be together.
My guy thinks when i act unsure about our relationship its because of another guy, but really its like i love him soo much and soo deep, that sometimes i feel like its better to get out because i want to be with him all the time and he has other things in his life. It just sucks for me cause i feel like he doesnt love me as much - which is really irrational, but sometimes i just feel like the love is too strong and it takes me over and it isnt healthy!
2006-09-25 01:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and no. Love must be present to build a relationship upon, but other things matter too, such as friendship, trust, compatibility, faith and respect.
You may have one special love, yet you can also love others after that relationship is over, and it will also be special.
If two people love one another so much, then they will want to be together, but it will still be important that other things are in place in important areas.
Read 1st Corinthians 13 for the great definition on love.
2006-09-25 01:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can love more than one person in your life. You can love someone so much and for reason beyond your control can not be together. If that happens though you should find a way to be together. It is hard to love at a distance.
2006-09-25 01:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er...no....you can have more than one love in your life....
and no....if two people cant be together then i dont think it is 'lurve'.....i might suggest that people who find themselves in that position of not being able to be with the one they love may have unresolved issues, probably from childhood, that prevent them from effectively contributing to their part of relationships, eg: commitment, negotiation, assertiveness. moreover they should accept constructive critisism, clean the loo and most importantly respect the other person as a human being.
i think to make a relationship work each side has to give 110%, and must always say sorry first, especially when its not their fault!!
2006-09-25 02:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can, but it depends on the situation. See I'm in the same thing you're in but me and my lover can't be together because we do better by ourselves, then we do being together. It's really hard to say you love someone and you can't be with them. It's really killing me. I really don't know how you feel, but I say 2 people that have romantic love for each other needs to be together because it drives them crazy if they aren't.
2006-09-25 01:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by nisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does happen. I've had several loves. These people i've had special connections with, its different for everyone. As you get older you become wiser and fall for less people as you know personality outshines the ''cute boy crush'' If you cant be with this person, maybe its best you remain friends. Alot can become easier for you when your older so dont stress now!
2006-09-25 01:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Think about Eminem and Kim. They love each other so much, but they can't bear to be in the same room with one another.
2006-09-25 01:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it can happen. One of my friend is like that. She loves that guy so much and he feels the same way like her, they can't be together. They quarrel, fight for stupid things and they've date so many times but every 5 minutes, they got a fight. She still loves him and he also loves her. They love each other to death!!!
2006-09-25 01:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Franca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,we can have only one true love...No,because love is about respect and to being nice than 2 people can be together forever don,t matter what is coming on them way..
2006-09-25 01:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can have more thatn one love and you can love somebody so much that you can't be together. but you should only have one love and it can be very hard too find that love again.
2006-09-25 01:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by marissa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋