During our relationship, i treated her like **** basically. Told her business, talked about her in all mean ways.
Now that we broke up, now shes tryna to look more prettier, dressin up nice everyday, goin places that WE never went together but went with her male friends (3 of em)....
Then when im around, she flirts with the 3 male friends...im like, are these ur friends or friends with benifits? Then when shes in my room, she talks on the phone half the time with some other dude, rude. Then when im ova her room, she does the same thing.
Even one time, she asks me to pick her up from her male friends room to take her back to my room. I get ova there, she opens the door, its all dark in there, i walk in, and she sits on the bed with some other male sleep in the bed...looks like she was layin there too. puts on her shoes and gets her stuff and leaves with me. I'm pissed as hell cause i didnt wanna see it.
do u think shes tryna get back at me, make me jealeous, or what
2006-09-25 01:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by chris.porter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also she says she just wanna be friends and try to be friends first since we was never friends to begin with before we got together...
basically i met her, and then three days later, we got together...
Im like if u wanna be my friend at least respect me to some extent...even if u are tryn to get back at me to make me see how it feels when u (she) was sad during most of the relationship...
2006-09-25 01:29:05 · update #1
shes not that type of girl that would go around ******...she only does that in relationships...
now i did tell her, that one night stands does exist
2006-09-25 01:33:48 · update #2
also, now im tryna change my ways, like being nicer to females and stuff....and the only way i think of getting her back is just
-do my business and do wut i gotta do
-be nice to her
-be her friend
-still keep my options open and talk to other gurls
ppl say once she sees that the flirting is not bothering me and im actually doin better things and see me talkin to other gurls (she gets super jealous when im with other females)...she'll slowly but surely start to come back..
especially if i play the hard to get role...cause after the relationship, we was still doin things sexually and she was still flirtin with me, but when she gets off vacation and college starts back up...its time to play hard to get
2006-09-25 01:37:42 · update #3
She is deliberately throwing this in your face. She is trying to make you jealous and it's working. If you treated her like sh*t, then I really can't blame her. But that's beside the point. If you want to be her friend, then just explain to her that you can, but you're uncomfortable picking her up at some guy's place and her ignoring you in your place cuz of another guy. Be prepared to tell her why cuz she's gonna make you say it (she's been waiting to hear you say you're jealous). I'm going to be honest. Being friends with her may do you more harm than good. Can you really switch from bf mode to friend mode and watch her go from guy to guy? And not say a word? Are you willing to sit back and basically shut up just to have her as a friend? Think about it!
2006-09-25 01:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is getting off on messing with your head. she just had sex with a guy in your room and rubbed it in your face. I wonder why you keep letting her do that to you
2006-09-25 08:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she wants u to realise how it feels like when u treat someone like ****.
n she is just showing u she is no longer urs to possess.
2006-09-25 08:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by TulipGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karma... it's not her fault entirely you started the game
2006-09-25 08:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋