2006-09-25 01:18:44 · 21 answers · asked by adriboff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahhh mate did this happen to you??
She's obviously not mature enough to meet face to face and speak about it! Better off without that kind o crap, try and move on!!
God i cant believe she did that!?? Thats sooo nasty. Not all girls are like that, some are lovely!!
2006-09-25 01:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, having been the nasty girl that's finished a relationship by text before, I can only tell you what I was thinking. I'd considered it for a long time, knew that I had to finish it but wasn't strong enough to do it face to face. I knew that face to face (or on the phone) I would be 'talked around' and had been through it several times before to prove it with the same guy. It's horrible to be talked into something your heart just isn't in so doing it by text and then ignoring calls means that you get what you want and don't have to cope with as much of the guilt. The hardest thing when finishing a relationship is knowing that one person wants to finish it whilst the other doesn't and the guilt of hurting someone like that is hard to live with, texting takes away a huge amount of guilt.
2006-09-25 01:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can not believe she dumped you by text, and that women are defending her actions. If your question had been reveresed with you dumping her by text, they would have jumped all over you as a coward and a typical bloke running away from commitment. If she is shallow enough to dump you by text and not speaking to you directly either by phone or in person to explain then she is not worth another minute off your time mate.
I am feeling your pain that a tactless text has given you but belive me it gets easier everyday!
2006-09-25 01:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz she's scared of wot ur gonna say! It's always easier to do n say these kinda things thru txt but when ur actually doin it u dnt think about the otha persons feelins! She prob thinks its better 2finish it this way n not talk coz she'll hurt u more by speakin 2u bout it! She's probably gutted about it too tho, but isnt letting on!
Goodluck xx
2006-09-25 01:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Jodi ♥ Kaydi's Mummy ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why is the guy calling if the girl didn't even had the decency to tell him that to his face (and explain why ideally)??????????? It is clear she knows you won't like her answer and you probabbly discover she has been shallow and lied all the way to you. Just dropp it for your own sake. I had that situation once..............I wasn't even told I was dumped. I had to figure that one out too. I found out later the reason and I concluded that at that time I wasn't ready to know. It was too low and degrading. So, maybge better you don't know yet. there is a word for this people, I think is called COWARD.................
2006-09-25 01:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by laidia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could ask this question about guys. I don't think it's a guy or girl thing...my recent ex hasn't even given me the courtesy that yours has; he's just not turned up when said he would and won't answer phone at all.
2006-09-25 07:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She broke up with you by text because she wants it to be final,end of story.She is not strong enough or maybe not even mature enough to sit with you and talk it through.It even could be that she can't think of a reason but just that she doesn't want to be with you.
2006-09-25 02:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just face the fact it is over and try to move on. talking to her will prob only make matters worse for both of you. If she finished with you by text-she isn't worth it anyway!
2006-09-25 01:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he's moved on or he's forgot your cellular extensive type or purely perhaps he do no longer want to talk to you anymore. It additionally could be which you're tormenting him to loss of life with each and all of the calls and text cloth messages which you bypass away and he's so unwell of it that he purely want call you back or %. it up once you call him. you may back off and enable him be and while he's able to talk to you / you would be attentive to and till then bypass away him alongside and bypass on with life. once you least anticipate it he will call and if he does not then it is your sign to head on. there is a proof to why he's doing this yet your no longer likely to get it out of him no longer fairly yet so my superb wager is to enable or no longer that is to boot as him and don't hassle calling or texting him anymore till he's able to talk to you with the aid of fact in case you retain this up you will lose him perpetually and in case you do no longer want that than you may quit. Your no longer making this any much less complicated on him by ability of bugging the crap out of him 24/7. you think of which you be attentive to what your doing properly enable me enlighten you while he in no way calls you ever back, or while he see's you out he want seem at you nor discuss with you. The texting stops to boot with the aid of fact the telephone calls then you definately would be attentive to that he has moved on and he has somebody else who does not torment him to loss of life by ability of pushing the redial button each few seconds. Being scared won't make it better. circulate on and back off.
2016-10-17 22:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by montesi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we see it as thats the end, we sent you the message for a reason because we dont want to tell you on the phone and when you try and ring its annoying because we dont want to speak to you so if a girl has dumped you over text dont ring her she will only hate you more
2006-09-25 01:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by xxDiStUrBeDxx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋