I do not know how to discipline my daughter.... she is 2 and very much misbehaving
2006-09-25 00:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How can I find ways to discipline her?
2006-09-25 00:38:23 · update #1
sometimes I do wish you can slap in the but.... my husband and I have not slapt at all :(
2006-09-25 00:42:45 · update #2
First since you are the parent do not let the child be in the drivers sit, do not allow her control to push your button, you are not very descriptive with your question, yet she is only 2 years old she need much guidance and direction, have you child proof your home and put all things away and pack them up until your child is old enough not to take things or brake things, put up child gates in door ways, so that the child will remain safe in areas of your home. Try to relax and remain strong and patience and pick your battles wisely. and apply more structure in the child day, and maintain it consistently and routinely.
2006-09-25 01:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by soulstore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two is that magical age where a kid is possessed by some variety of demon. Part human tornado, part attention hound ... oy. Glad my kid just turned three. Any rate, the kiddo wants ATTENTION. And they'll do whatever they can to get it. Good attention, bad attention ... doesn't matter to kiddo. So ... ignore as much screaming as you can. Suggest alternate activities for the child (and participate for a few minutes before you walk away). Don't forget the power of the time out (five minutes should do nicely), and also consider that if you aren't putting the child down for a nap on the regular, she'll be an unholy terror. But mostly, you have to be consistent. Don't let her win. If you give an inch, she'll take the mile.
2006-09-25 07:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by yu g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh. i love the terrible two's. my gran daughter Brittany was the baddest two year old I had ever encountered and I have met a lot of kids.two year olds are still babies and they don't know what the hell they're doing or saying .raven simone who use to be on the Cosby's says she doesn't even remember being on the show that much so that shows you that kids don't know.listen just teach her whats right and start laughing . i found my gran daughter to be bad but so very cute and most of the things she did or said were so funny. if you can find laughter in your children even when they are acting out you will find some peace.teach her whats right and give her your guidance but let her develop her personality.don't stifle who she is,just kind of guide her into who she is.oh yea,Brittany is 13 now and such a joy,so sweet and when I tell her about her bad butt she just laughs and doesn't remember.but the person she hassled the most was me and today we are very close she's wonderful.
2006-09-25 07:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do now is just win. Don't worry so much about the dicipline aspect of it. Take away a certian food, a favorite playtoy or put her in timeout. Don't grab or hurt her in any way (although an ocasional slap on the but might help)
2006-09-25 07:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow through with a threat-like "If you don't stop throwing your toys around i will take them away for the day" Always follow through!! Don't make unreasonable threats. Mean what you say Never waiver
2006-09-25 07:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch nanny 911, the shows gives good ideas.
2006-09-25 07:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by alh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who the heck is my? and introduce your daughter to a swift hard swat on her behind when she's out of control, then explain to her that you will not tolerate such behavior.
2006-09-25 07:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her and if she still doesn't understand tapping her a little bit dont hurt if all else fails just thump her a little spanking is not going to hurt her. she needs to learn to listen. If u can't discpline that girl now you'll have it harder as she gets older
2006-09-25 08:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ain't my baby gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to convience her with love n smiling face. cause it can be larger procidure for u to apply but by this way u can find permenant solutions. elders n children r always tough to handle but they r both our responsibility so keep cool mind n find right path. u can ! u can see one good website related with new born baby n baby prolem.
www.mustformums.com may be it helps u.
2006-09-25 07:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 2, she's just wanting your attention. Being bad is her way of getting it. Try to get her to be good for your attention and ignore her when she's bad. Reward and praise her when she's good and she'll come around.
2006-09-25 07:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋