Why do people cheat on their bf or gf then want them back but do the same mistake again?

Question

i think its dumb sometimes love sucks

Answer 1

ya I had gone through many such stories that my friends do toold me and you know what happens some of the times that the other person also accept it again and agian hhhhhhh but really these are mad people and he LOVE never sucks and ways out this is not at alll love thats just like a duck

Answer 2

The first time around should let you know what type of person they are, if they cheat once, don't be surprised if they do it again...and if you gave in once, they will expect you to do that again. I'm definitely not the spokesmodel on a lasting relationship, but one thing I can say is I have never cheated on my gf's, can't say that in return on their behalf. My philosophy is this "Cheat on me, it's over"...to me that trust is already lost, which to me is a key part of a relationship.

Answer 3

They do it because they can. If they know that you'll take them back then there's nothing to stop them doing it. It comes down to a lack of respect for you. If they loved you they wouldn't dare to hurt you like that.
Write them off as a loser and move on. There's plenty of decent people out there and you deserve better.

Answer 4

Because they are not ready for commitment....play the field while your young so when real love comes your way you will have what it takes to commit.

Answer 5

in my opinion once a cheater always a cheater why set yourself up for that especially if that person cheated on you before

Answer 6

Love doesn't suck. People just abuse and misuse the real thing

Answer 7

sex is not a mistake