I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15. We both go to the same school, and we've been together for over a month and a half. We went out last Sunday as we usually do and watched a horror movie. Everything seemed to be going great. I had my arm around her and later that night she called me after the movie, and I said goodnight.
The next day at school, I say hi to her and everything seems to be normal. But later that day she's flirting with one of the guys at school. Someone said she just might be wanting more attention from me, but I already give her a lot of attention and tell her I like her all the time.
This guy is in her art class and she was writing on his arm with a pen, and she plays games like stepping on his shoes. And sometimes she does this in front of me. I have no clue if she's trying to make me jealous because I asked her before if she had feelings for this guy, and she said no. Maybe she's using him as a way to make me jealous? I heard from other girls im better looking though..
2006-09-24 23:56:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah.. forgot to mention that I'm her first boyfriend.. she's never had a boyfriend before..
Here is a picture of us together:
http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e128/NeonBase/HyeWonandJay.jpg
And here's apicture of just me:
http://myspace-941.vo.llnwd.net/00936/14/95/936585941_l.jpg
2006-09-25 00:12:04 · update #1
Girls love attention, but she needs to grow up and not flirt in front of you. Remember she is only 15!!!
2006-09-25 00:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age I also had a 15-year-old girl like yours. Indeed, I went through the teething problems you're going through. What did I do? Painful as it was I decided to let her go because an older person told me that about 98% of teenage relations end up no where. Instead my advisor told me to concentrate on my academic work. He said I could have any woman that I wanted as long as I had a good job. I took that advise. I concentrated on my studies and today - now I am the Quality Assurance Manager of a multinational company. And my wife? My wife is a sexy, gorgeous, beauty. She is much more beautiful than my flirting school girlfriend.
2006-09-25 07:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by YBB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know this girl, maybe she is just a flirt and likes the attention of guys. Maybe deep inside she is insecure, I don't think she is trying to make you jealous, she probably doesn't even realise what's happening, just take her aside and speak to her, make her feel special,nothing big, just her favourite chocolates or the latest C.D single she likes, anyway babe, good luck!
2006-09-25 07:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by cherri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a fifteen year old girl dating a seventeen year old who isn't from my school. And, I can say my first relationship was at 14 and, girls tend to like alot of attention, like wow. And, maybe she is thirsting for attention ? Or maybe she just doesn't know it depresses you when she does it. But, talk to her and tell her, if she does not respect that then, maybe she is not right for you.
2006-09-25 07:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by cross_country_ammo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey waddup , hows the cute couple lol . She probably isent doing anything to make you jelous your just interperating it as being that way . Stop being so nice by telling her how much you like her etc be more of a challange and looks dont mean anything its how you are personaly and if you create attraction or not . Act like you dont care and make fun of them ya know like " you guys look like a cute couple " in a joking way .
2006-09-25 07:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously playing you for a fool. Don't take it, just go out and find somesome else who can treat you humanely. At that age yes, they all go around but if you want a proper gf, then don't settle for second best. If you don't want a proper gf you go and flirt with some other girls.
2006-09-25 07:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new honey, bubba. She's a-movin' on.
At 15, it is normal and healthy to sample a lot of different relationships. Don't start pretendin' to be married or something at your age. Have a blast, live a little. Go find a new one.
2006-09-25 07:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your shoes then I would brake up with her!Even though she is only 15 she should learn to be more mature. If you are her boyfriend then she shouldn't be flirting with other guys,at least not if she really cared about you!
2006-09-25 07:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Cassandra D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both still very young and should not be commiting yet...play the field and enjoy your life before you devote yourself to one person only...life is full of wonderful experiences...as for looks they mean nothing, its whats on the inside that counts....good luck
2006-09-25 07:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you flirt with other girls and i am sure she will automatically come back to you. Dont get stuck with girls in life.. life is much beyond girlfriends and datind.. explore the other aspects of life young boy!!! All the best dear... take care...
2006-09-25 07:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Deepak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋