my boyfriend and i been together for two weeks now, and at first he was sweet and nice (which he still is) but he is also in a fraternity which takes most of his time away from me, plus him and i have complicated schedules during school, we barely have time for each other. he is always reassuring me that it will change, but i am so confused, we really like each other, i need advice heeeelllllp!!!!
2006-09-24 16:29:59 · 5 answers · asked by jada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Him and I are also on the Deans list
2006-09-25 15:38:04 · update #1
It will be hard at first since you guys have complicated schedules and cannot see one another all the time, but is there a way that you can make time (at night) where you can talk on the phone to one another? I know you would not be able to see him in person, but this at least gives you the opportunity to talk to him. If you know your schedules in advance, you should try and plan a day that you know you will both be free so you can spend some time together. I know it is tough, trust me, my boyfriend graduated and I am still in school 3hrs away from him, but if you both like one another, you will find away to find time for each other.
2006-09-24 16:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhhh if only you could step back and see where you are in life!
You both are in school and that has to be #1. You need your own career to be independent and don't let anything interfere with that. Marriages, lovers are generally not forever but a career is!
AFTER school you can focus on the significant other. Right now that will be hard (impossible?) to see but in the overall picture (of life) it really is a very short time. Hummmm... if only there were a pill to suppress the hormones at this age! A jock or frat boy will only lead you astray at a critical time. Don't do it! Remember.. if there is something there it will be there after you graduate. Focus Focus Focus
2006-09-24 16:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Patagoniakidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need to find time to sit down and be together. Make a date and neither one of you let anything come between this time together. Savor this time with him.
This a test if you can find this time then both of you can make this relationship work. If you can't then it's time to move on with other things if only for a while till you both can try again.
2006-09-24 16:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by AceOfBears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to sit down and think about what you want out of the relationship and how to make it work, instead of asking complete strangers for advice. Only you know the real answer.
2006-09-24 16:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give him a hard time about being so busy. If they're legitimate things (like school work) that he has to do then you'll end up pissing him off and making him feel smothered. If they're bs things then maybe he's not as serious as you are.
2006-09-24 16:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Liz G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋