I met this great girl last night out at a club - we talked, held hands, made out for a while - really hit it off in general. Ok, so we were both drinking but she did give me her number (and yes, it's her real number - she dialed it on my phone to prove it rang hers).
My question is - should I call her or do you think this was just a "drink fling" for her and if you do think I should call, when is appropriate?
Thanks.
2006-09-24 07:50:54 · 22 answers · asked by derek985 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So - I did call her yesterday - got vmail and left a simple message....
"Hi - this is Derek and I'm calling to say that I had a great time with you last night. Give me a call so we can get together again."
...and I haven't heard from her. I guess this really was just a "drink fling".
D.
2006-09-25 06:14:57 · update #1
you should call her the next time you plan to go out
2006-09-24 08:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hit it off no matter if you were drunk or not then give her a call. However, the first phone call should be short and sweet just to say hi and you had a good time last night. Don't stay on the phone with nothing to say, that is a mood killer. CALL TONIGHT AND LET US KNOW HOW IT WENT!!!
2006-09-24 14:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Noclone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, considering it was last night, call in her a few hours.
What is the worst that could happen?
I'm sure everything will be fine, although the two of you were drinking, she probably had an amazing time with you and wants to spend more time with you... in fact, she is probably waiting for your call.
And it's better to take the chance and call rather then to have never done at all.
2006-09-24 14:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must hurt to be so afraid of rejection. She gave you her number so if you are interested then call her - and the sooner the better -before the other guys who got her number call her.
2006-09-24 15:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a couple of days, make her sweat it out, then call before it's to late. never call the day after getting the number, it makes you look desperate.
2006-09-24 15:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by hey_finny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were you when God issued common sense? Anyways, she didn't give you her number for a souvineir so call and find out what's up. Ok?
2006-09-24 14:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her soon. If you met last night, you better call today or tomorrow the latest.
2006-09-24 14:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and make sure she made it home ok and tell her thanks for the laughs and a good time. Then tell her that you guys will have to do it again sometime soon. Then say... so what time tonight?"
2006-09-24 14:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call her im sure she is waiting for it
2006-09-24 14:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her, but if she doesn't call back with in the week lose the number.
2006-09-24 14:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋