I really dont know if this detail is appropriate for this forum but i really need help. I had a girlfriend before that i had sex often times. She admitted that i wasnt her first time and it was okay with me. I never thought she was dirty or infected until one day my penis hurt while i was urinating. Then i remembered that one time i attempted to have anal sex with her. i think i inserted my penis for an inch until she pulled it out cause it was painful for her. then i inserted it back into her vagina and cummed there. I remembered friends talking that once you have anal sex, dont insert your penis back to the vagina for it can cause STD. Is that true? Or is it my girlfriend that is infected that time? I havent gone to a doctor until now but when i urinate, it isnt as painful as before. Sometimes i find blood with my urine. Am i sterile now? What should i do? Please help me!!!!
2006-09-18 10:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by sperm_shooter_25 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
P.S. : i was 16 years old when it all happened. How should i tell my mom about that?! And i've heard it costs alot to maintain the med. Can anyone advice me how to tell my mom? Or should i kill myslelf instead?
2006-09-18 10:24:48 · update #1
the anal and vagina thing is not true she has it and gave it to you I went through the same thing and I did not get treated for over a year but once I did I started having babies, but every one is different so go to a doc do they have a std clinic where you are from? go there it is normally free and confidential also let her know because she has to be treated as well or she will keep spreading it I was 16 years old when it happen to me too and I never told my mother but thank god I was not sterile good luck!
2006-09-19 03:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by C live 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Don't kill yourself......Whatever this is can be treated.
2. Blood in the urine in never normal, so go to your doctor to see if you have a UTI or kidney infection. Be honest so he can treat you properly.
3. Use a condom next time, or wait until you are married so you don't have to worry about stuff like this. The health dept. gives out condoms for free, as does planned parenthood.
4. While you are at the doctor, make sure he tests you for any STD's. Yes, some can make you sterile, but not all of them.
5. Tell your mom what's going on. She may have some great advice for you.
6. Go to the doctor even if you are feeling better. Some symptoms hide for a while, only to pop up again later.
7. if it turns out you do have an STD, you need to tell everyone you've had sex with so they don't spread it around as well. Not all STD's are stopped with condoms.
8. Good luck. Being a teenager is very hard these days, and you couldn't pay me enough to go through it again. My prayers go with you.
2006-09-25 19:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Fine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a doctor and ask to go to a specialist. The first priority is to not pass STD's to another partner. The second priority is to make sure the STD's are cured. Then the issue of viabiliy may be address later. Let your body heal. You may have been sterile before this event so don't connect the STD with fertility.
It is possible to be sterile for a time while on heavy antibiotics.
The G disease is tenacious and may take several treatments. Follow through with treatment and testing.
2006-09-18 10:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That cannot cause an STD like gonorrhea. It could cause an infection. You need to go to a dr. There are lots of different things you could have and it may not be an STD. You could have a bladder or kidney infection for example. Most STD's are curable so forget about being embarrassed and go see a doctor!
2006-09-18 10:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to go to a doctor asap. And you need to talk to your mother she is the only one you should be getting any advice from not from your friends or strangers on-line. Your mother will be the only one that has your best interest at heart. Good luck, Go to the doctor. Most major cities have free clinics and also STD clinics where they do free or next to free STD screens look in your local yellow pages.
2006-09-18 14:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have a urinary tract infection. You can only get an STD from someone who has one you can not get an STD just from having anal sex and then vaginal sex. You should go and see a Dr. and you should use a condon to prevent any further STD's
2006-09-19 14:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cannot cure yourself without taking something sensitive to the bug boy . attempts to achieve this miracle happens in africa , visit a witch doctor and a gallon of urine and horse poo mixed with dog milk will certainly be garanteed treatment . visit your doctor mate , do not be shy , there are treatments available
2006-09-18 10:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by roy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to Planned Parenthood. They will treat you without telling your mom and provide services, including the prescription for little or no cost. Please call them right away or tell your mom. You need medical treatment ASAP, and the consequences of not getting treated are going to be worse than ANYTHING your mom could do to you.
2006-09-18 11:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
OK, 1st tack to you father abut what go in on we you at this moment, Thant go to you Dr to have a std test, if you are a std +, then you are not the first one on you girlfriend and this happen to you because you not use protection,
2006-09-23 17:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by cyresetaz69 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You may not be sterile, but you should certainly see a doc!
BTW, your friend are wrong about how an STD is contracted.
2006-09-24 10:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋