Lets say we met and after a while we both felt like its time for something to happen between the two of us. Tell me how would you feel and what would you say if I asked you lets go to the clinic or I want you to have a check up before we go any further. ( I am not in that situation but I am just wondering)
2006-09-15 03:11:30 · 15 answers · asked by James Henderson 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
I'd be very happy. It would show me that you care for yourself and me, by making sure we are safe enough to be involved physically.
Infact, I would love you.
2006-09-15 03:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Oui_Fleur 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I';d say let's go, because you need the same thing B-4 I get intimate with you. Safety first!! If that means a trip to the clinic for your lady, it also means one for you too. If a woman gets really mad when u ask her to do that, then you better walk away. the situation mite warrant another try at it after she has had time to realize this is for her sake as well as your own, and then again it mite be a sign for you to leave that alone!!
2006-09-15 09:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by missouriaunt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you were a cautious and very responsible person and I would be very impressed. If someone was to be insulted about this then they may not be aware of the seriousness of making sure that you are safe from all these diseases. A good time is not worth a death sentence. When you are in that situation , do exactly that, your a pretty smart person.
2006-09-15 03:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by perrisgal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally it would make me feel a whole lot better about your health too...I expect that you mean we can go to the clinic and make sure we are both safe?
I think that it's the responsible thing to do...as I understand that quite often people are unaware that they have an STD. I would be more attracted to you knowing that you take your heath seriously. If She blows you off then good riddance!
2006-09-15 05:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon Day 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were the girl, at first i would kind of be a little offended i dont kno wwhy, but i would be, but regaurdless of how it would make me feel it IS a good idea and it SHOULD be done if you want to stay safe and clean and happy =) but it may be a little awkward.. always is for some reason....... well usually ( i mean for someone who you havent been seeing for very long yet ) if you've been together for longer then 2 months, and have that kind of closeness then thats a different storyy! =)
2006-09-15 04:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly now a days most women and men would be glad their partner asked them that - I know I would, and I would ask you to do the same thing.
With all the STDs out there you never can be too careful!
2006-09-15 03:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be very smart and safe on your part. If the girl does not want to go I think you should find someone who is willing to go first.
No one should turn down an STD exam (unless they have something to hide).
2006-09-15 04:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by KITTY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as both parties were being tested for "past baggage" no problem! Any woman who was insulted doesn't have a brain, that would be your signal to look elsewhere.
2006-09-16 03:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jane B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is the most positively sweetest thing a guy can do. Ur thinking about ur health! Kudos for u honey!
2006-09-15 12:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it we can make a day of it. Have a early lunch go shopping and all. I don't see any thing wrong with it. And with end results hopefully we can celebrate being fruit-full.
2006-09-15 03:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋