2006-09-14 21:32:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
no way! i don't want a funky penis!
2006-09-14 22:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it really depends on a number of things.
How long have you been with them? A month, I would say heck no. Years? Maybe.
Also, have they taken a STD test? If they have and they come back clean, then that might be a reason to not use condoms. It really depends on the situation.
Are they faithful? If you suspect they may have cheated or messed around in the past it's probably not a good idea to not use condom. My philosophy is once a cheater always a cheater. If they go out there and cheat, get an STD and bring it home to you, that's no good.
And last, is there any other type of birth control being used? Is the women on birth control? If not, it's probably a REALLY good idea she gets on it. You don't want to have any unwanted pregnancies.
It really depends on your situation and your relationship with the person. There is a lot of different things to think about when it comes to using condoms or not. Good luck to you!
2006-09-15 09:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn't! i say this because people with std's never tell anyone. my lover waited over a year before he told me he had a std. we used protection for the first 2 months we were together then used nothing after that. he was wrong but right to wait and tell me. you have to trust the person with all that you have in order to tell someone you have a std. it's best to assume everyone has a std and get tested for everything before you ever have any kind of sex with a new partner. if they won't get tested, they ain't worth your time. hope this helps.
2006-09-15 13:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
how long have you known one another? have you dated a long time? do you know your partner's sexual history? has he/she engaged in high risk behavior prior to knowing you?
if you are in a completely committed relationship, including being monogamous relationship ~ then i would say after 6 months of being 100% sure that they are not sleeping with anyone else (nor are you) then i would say yes ... eventually you can.
if you don't want a pregnancy, and if you are 100% sure that your partner is not carrying any type of STD, then im guessing if you're not on the pill or some other approved method birth control, you will still continue to use condoms.
good luck with your decision.
2006-09-15 04:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by :|: raven :|: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will depend upon if your lover is having sex only with you. If you are sure of that go ahead. Most of the STDs can be prevented with condom. http://www.doctorgoodskin.com/
2006-09-15 08:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by kingoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he or she has had a test for HIV (and tested negative for 6 months), Hep B, and has no history of genital warts or herpes virus, oral or genital and you trust them WITH YOUR LIFE then, maybe. And..if you are heterosexual and you are ready to raise a child together.
2006-09-15 05:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by bcd95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to always use a condom
2006-09-15 15:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust at all even if ur married. get tested before!!!!
2006-09-15 19:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know him from lond time and u trust him y not...if u have any doubts dont take the risk
2006-09-15 08:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by selina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get married first.
2006-09-15 12:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust him/her, then why not? just be ready for the consequence
2006-09-15 05:19:29 · answer #11 · answered by OrgasmO 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋