Is possible to get an STD even when he pulls out?

Question

I had sex with my boyfriend without a condom (I know stupid decision that I now regret immensly cus my mind is running wild now!) But he didn't ejaculate at all inside me he pulled out right before he came. so I wanna know can I still catch something even if nothing went inside me???? Please be gentle cos I'm a little afraid! But then again it was a stupid choice I made that now I must live with whatever comes....

Answer 1

Darling,I don't know how old you are,but your obviously not very sexually experienced.We all make mistakes so I'm not having a go at you.If you think there is a possibility that the boy you had sex with might have a sexually transmitted disease,why oh why did you have sex with him, or is this an afterthought? Well the best advice I can give you is to get an appointment with your doctor a.s.a.p.or go to a clinic that deals with this problem.Don't be frightened to go,these people deal with this sort of problem all the time.Even if you find out that you haven't contracted anything from him, (and I hope that will be the case) PLEASE protect yourself in future.We can all be taken in by the moment,but it's not worth dying for or spending the rest of your life treating something you have picked up from another person,who by then you probably won't even be with.I would also add, you can catch aids or other sexual deseases by having oral or annul sex as well,so don't be talked into that as an option either.I really wish you the best and please take my advice and go,prevention is always better than cure.
Good luck.

Answer 2

You don't need to ejaculate to spread an STD and you don't even need penetration to catch some diseases. Not only that, the pre-ejaculate (prec*m) does contain sperm and you have a disease risk and a pregnancy risk.

You know you made an unwise chice, so don't beat yourself over it, but take care of yourself and resolve never to let this happen again. If you are being pressured to "go bare" this person doesn;t care a thing about you and is serious bad news. You are worth far better.

You need to be tested for STD's and for pregnancy. (If it has been 72 hours or less since this happened, you can get the "morning after" pill to try to prevent pregnancy. SOme doctors will try it up to a week later,) I hope you can confide in your parents if you are underage, but in most places even teenagers can get confidental care and treatment when an STD or a pregnancy is involved. Call your local Planned Parenthood or city or county health department for a referral or appointment.

You also need to buy some condoms yourself, carry them with you and insist they be used, every time and from the beginning of sex play.

Again, you know it was mistake, but you need to focus on the future not obsess about what you can't call back. And get an appointment to take care of yourself.

Some good info can be found on ww.scarleteen.com

Answer 3

Honey, if you are going to be sexually active, you need to be sexually aware. Do some reading, huh? Google: Pregnancy, Birth control, Birth control _ Plan B, Diseases+sexually transmitted, Parenting+first year, etc..... wise up, honey
1. Are you ready to become a parent, change diapers, be up all night, feed a kid, have it burp all over you, $**** in its diapers, listen to screaming for no reason?????? What do they call people who do not use birth control???????? parents, sweetie. You don't need someone to be gentle with you, sweetie, you need someone to tell you the truth, since you are ignorant of the consequences of your actions.
1. First, yes, you could be pregnant. Find a place that will sell you Plan B. If you are not 18, get one of your 18 year old girlfriends or a guy of 18 to buy it for you at a pharmacy. Lie if you have to, or have your girl friends lie. But for christ's sake, don't get pregnant.
2. Secondly, you can acquire any STD without ejaculation -- just insertion. And the least of your problems is herpes, which is no big deal. But syph is, and so is chlamydia, hpv will give you cancer later in life ---- want me to go on???????
Don't ruin your life with an early pregnancy. Marriages that occur early because of pregnancy just don't last, sweetie.... what you want now, isn't who you will want in 4 years. And your marriage with a child will not last much longer than 4 years ----- guaranteed, absolutely and positively. And there is nothing worse than being a single mom, except being a black single mom. No man is too interested in raising another man's child -- That's just the way we are put together...... Every child deserved to be wanted and cared for. How dare you bring an innocent child into this world who will not have an adult as a parent, and will not have a dad for very long........ Wake up. Life is about to do a number on you unless YOU decide to plan your future.
3. And if you are going to stay sexually active, get on the birth control pill. Go to your county health services -- it costs next to nothing

Answer 4

Yes, you can get an std that way. You can get syphillus, hpv (gential warts, cervical cancer causing kind or harmless hpv), herpes and a few others that way. If you are concerned about possible sti exposure, talk to your doctor, someone at the local clinic or planned parenthood. The teen health clinics and PP won't tell your parents if you don't want them to. If it's been less than 72 hours since you had sex, try getting the morning after pill or plan b because even though he pulled out you can still get pregnant that way. Plan B does not abort or end pregnancy. It stops pregnancy from occuring because pregnancy doesn't actually occur during or right after sex. So, you can get that over the counter in Canada, in America if you're over 18 or by prescription if you're under 18 in America. Sorry, I don't know about other countries!

Answer 5

STDs are transferred in many ways including skin-skin contact as well as the exchange of bodily fluids. Even if he didn't ejaculate inside you, there are still fluids that come out beforehand (called pre-***) that could harm you. Herpes is usually transmitted through skin-skin contact when an outbreak is present, and by blood when an outbreak is nowhere to be seen. Please go get tested ASAP and if you ever decide to have a monogomous relationship, still be careful and get tested often because as sad as it is, you never really know what other people will do.

You can even get pregnant if he doesn't come inside you, but the chances are slimmer. BE CAREFUL. Many people aren't, so protect yourself.

Answer 6

YES!!!! HPV (the virus that causes genital warts)is among the most commonly contracted, and can be spread just by coming into contact with the skin of his genitalia, as can the herpes virus whether he is having an outbreak or not. Plus, even though he didn't ejaculate inside you during climax, there is always the possibility of him having leaked pre-ejaculate fluid into you, which can transmit disease just as easily. There's no cure for HPV or herpes, but they can be managed and suppressed, but there ARE treatments for things like chlamydia and gonorrhea, so go get tested if you are worried.

Answer 7

Yes you can catch something. Its not the sperm that carries the infection of an STD, its the skin. You must always use a condom to protect yourself from STD's and pregnancy. Even if he didn't ejaculate, there nothing to say that sperm didn't leak out.

Answer 8

If you suspect an STD you can go to your local health department for an evaluation at little or no charge. I must tell you that cancer of the penis sometimes starts as a non-painful pimple like growth near the head of the penis. You really should seek medical treatment just to rule out anything serious.

Answer 9

I am sorry that you are afraid, just try to relax. If you guys are having sex you should have already had the talk about past sexual partners and whether or not you all had been tested for STDs. I am hoping that you guys are in a committed relationship. If you are worried ask him if he has ever been tested, you have a right to know.

Answer 10

Of course you can. There is precum and anyway, if there are sores (such as herpes) or warts, they are on the skin, not in the semen. However, if your boyfriend is STD free then nothing to worry about. If you continue having sex, best to both visit the clinic, get tested and get some good birth control and use it consistently next time!