Im getting married next month and my husband to be wants a rehearsal so he knows exactly what to do. Its at a hotel and not that big a wedding so I dont think it will be that complicated. I dont know exactly what he has to do. But am stressed enough without having to organise a rehearsal too. I dont think there is any need for one.
2006-09-11 23:46:40 · 20 answers · asked by Laura C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
just talk to him your both under a lot of stress remember this your superbowl
2006-09-11 23:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend a rehearsal. It lets everyone know when they are walking, where they are walking to, what will be said and when, etc. You might think you know how it will happen, but there is going to be some confusion that needs to be cleared up at the rehearsal.
For a small wedding, just have you and your fiance, the best man, and maid of honor meet at the hotel with the officiant. It won't take very long, and there isn't much to plan. On the day of the wedding, have the best man and maid of honor to instruct the bridesmaids/groomsmen to just follow them.
2006-09-12 10:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely rehearse ...its absolutely key.
If you want a guide to duties check out
www.confetti.co.uk
as they have sections on this sort of thing but as it is a hotel wedding some of the things probably wont be relevant.
If he wants a rehearsal tell him to organise it .. dress it up as "if you organise it then you will know everything that goes into it so you will be more prepared and feel more confident on the day" ... and everything should be fine!
Good luck now and on the big day .. hope its really special for you :)
2006-09-12 07:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so first thing is that your fiancee's family should be organizing a rehearsal dinner. The purpose of this event is to help everyone in the wedding to understand what they need to do (the groom isn't the only one who may need help!).
Your officiant should be more than happy to help. Invite him/her to the rehearsal dinner...Since they've done it a bazillion times, they'll help you get thru the basics.
If you're not having a rehearsal dinner, ask your officiant if they can meet with you a day or two before. Also, check in with the other members of your wedding party to be sure that they're comfortable with their role.
2006-09-12 17:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider having a rehearsal. It doesn't seem like it would be that complicated, but you would be surprised. At our rehearsal, I had to make quick decisions on things that weren't brought to my attention til that time. For instance, where was the greeter going to stand? Where do the ushers put guests who come in late? Where were we supposed to be during the ceremony? Where did we want our seats? It's much easier to take care of these things at the ceremony site. The rehearsal doesn't have to be fancy, but people do have to know what they're doing!
2006-09-12 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your wedding to go smoothly I assume? I would go through with a rehearsal if I were you, it will please your fiance and it will prepare you for everything. If anything were to go wrong, hopefully it would go wrong on the rehearsal date, so you can fix it before the big day. If you are really stressed maybe it'll calm you down to know how everything will go on the real day, then you'll be totally prepared and won't have to stress on your actually wedding day.
2006-09-12 06:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the rehearsal because it will help so you don't stress out the day of. Your minister probably will want you to have one.
2006-09-12 08:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rehearsal is the best thing you can do before the wedding
2006-09-12 07:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry too much,I dont think a rehersal is needed,it will take the excitement off the big day.
2006-09-12 06:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by giggles38uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all he has to do is turn up and say "I do".
He's obviously got the 'jitters'. Make him feel relaxed and ask him what he is worried about. Maybe he just wants everything to go smoothly and is fretting over nothing.
We are like that, us men. Soothe his furrowed brow and everything will work out o.k. I wish you the best with your special day, don't worry.
2006-09-12 06:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. Im also getting married next month,14 October and we will just have a lunch(me, him,bridesmaids,bestmen)to say who goes where and where goes what ect. Your fututre hubby is probably just nervous, give him a whiskey and tell him to relax. Also, he's probably only stressing because you are..relax and take it easy...good luck!
2006-09-12 06:52:52 · answer #11 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋