just help me for this question, how can i marry her.?
2006-09-11 23:20:23 · 20 answers · asked by maxz_varte 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually you get down on one knee, and say 'Will you marry me?'
2006-09-11 23:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Posthuman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know some other informations. is it that it's you only who love her and wont be able to marry. that means it's one sided. You dont have a chance to hurt her now and even later.
Are both of you in love and she sees you as her future husband? Then it;s better and advisable to tell her your status that you will not be able to marry her. giving hope is worse. it's better she faces the reality then regrets and cries later.
if the reason is strong enough not to marry her. Does she know that.
Is it that she is married and both of you are in love in that case she will ahve to evaluate her situation and find out what exactly she wants.
Do you think it's a temporary phase in your life and you just feel infatuated towards her? then it will pass over in some time.
But as you say you are in love with her then you have to do a reality check what exactly you want from the relationship (if you share with each other) how its enriching you then listen to your heart and take a deicison which is good for both of you---wheter to continue or get out of it.
Wish you all the best
2006-09-12 06:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by sheela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you love her, but yet you cant marry her? why not, thats the point of marriage, maybe your just not ready for the commitment, you shouldnt do it until your ready & if shes expecting to be asked, you might want to talk to her about it (tell her you want to wait) dont get married until your ready to marry the person you love.
2006-09-12 06:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in your own statement you just can't marry, what help can be offered on how can you marry her?
2006-09-12 06:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand the question...
Why can't you marry her? That might help people give a better answer...
2006-09-12 06:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you aren't ready for marriage. Or maybe you are subconsciously holding out for someone else...someone you haven't met. Or maybe you're looking directly at the future mother of your children, or who should be, and are about to let her slip out of your hands. I would take a step back and try to get an aerial view of your life, your life with her, and her life independent from yours. How do they function? How do they function separately and together? Are they congruent with each other? Do you feel complete with her in your life? How would your life change if she wasn't in your life? These are all questions that you can ask yourself to see if she is the one for you, or if you aren't ready yet, or if she isn't the one for you. I wish the best for you.
2006-09-12 06:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by Amy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her but you don't believe she's the one - don't get married if you can't picture it forever. Enjoy the relationship
2006-09-12 06:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant marry her you can be as friend & enjoy your relationship.Or tell her to marry you.
2006-09-12 06:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by vinitvs_2599 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can't you marry her? religious reasons or commitment problems?
PS. By the way you don't *have* to marry her
2006-09-12 06:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by loopytoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur not in love just an affection or for time pass u wanna a girl friend. If u really love her u will think about making her has ur life patner and ready to face wat ever the problems comes in betweeen, but ur not in love. hope ur one flirty guy. you really dont know the meaning of love.
2006-09-12 07:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by anamika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋