I need someone to help me…
We’ve been dating with this guy for 2 months already. Everything was marvelous: he loved me, I loved him. But the problem was the distance: we were living in different towns. However, he did come to me, we called each other several times a day, wrote messages. The day before yesterday he did say that he missed me and loved. But tonight he sent me a message as following: “I’m not sure if long-distance relations are for me”. What should I do? I can’t believe that all the feelings are gone! Please, help
2006-09-11 23:18:07 · 8 answers · asked by Greeneyed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, the feelings were probably real if he confessed them. but are other things that are involved in this.
are you ready for a long-distance relationship?
why? what are the drawbacks? and what are form his point of view? talk with him face to face. good luck!
2006-09-11 23:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he found someone else. Possibly living closer to where he lives. He just stinks at setting up for the break up.
2006-09-11 23:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think he is right, either u and him should find a place to live together and u should move in with him. i'm not sure how old u are tho, coz if ur still a teen then ur parents may have something to say about that
2006-09-11 23:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should check if he's really serious about what he said. was it just a moment saying? otherwise, give it a little break to see if it work. he should know that many distant relationships work. so try to explain that there's no pressure right now, you guy just met. take it easy.
2006-09-11 23:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by hoang anh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its hard to be away from someone you love but you need to do what is going to make you happy talk to him ask him why the sudden change good luck
2006-09-11 23:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he said that just after a day he told you he missed you and loved you...uh uh sounds like trouble!!
don't worry just enjoy yourself and see what happens...
might as well get a hot dude and ditch the person that thinks"long-distance-relations-are-not-for-him!"
show him who's boss!!!!
2006-09-11 23:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by roxy_baby56 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he figured you were spending too much time in international chat rooms, maybe you were'nt giving him the sex he needed
2006-09-11 23:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on.
2006-09-11 23:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋