i do not watch them in front of her out of respect but not good enough i burn all my books i have tryed give them up but i feel i want keep something from my past i don,t all the time ido sometimebut i find sex with her boring i know it,s sounds bad but that how i feel i really love her but a simple cuddy would do me can someone help .
2006-09-11 23:01:24 · 27 answers · asked by Shane S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can either:
a) try harder to give up porn
b) tell her that you're keeping your porn no matter what she says or thinks
c) tell her you're getting rid of it but watch it behind her back
d) get a new girlfriend
Any of these have worked for billions of men. Honestly, most men look at porn. I do. My brother does. My dad does. My grandfathers did. All my friends do (ok, except one really devout catholic who thinks it's wrong to masturbate). 90% I'd say. Even in a committed relationship. It's a fact of life and one she has to deal with, not you. To be honest, as much as masturbation is not a substitute for sex, sex is not really a substitute for masturbation. You can live without either, of course, but I'd rather not.
I feel sorry for all the girls on here who are sadly deluded that their men never look at porn.
2006-09-11 23:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sinai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-17 23:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't watch porn to simply stare at the women. Men fantasize, and they usually lock into something very specific they find sexy, sometimes things they don't feel comfortable sharing openly. For example, a man might fantasize about a particular situation...or a particular feature...and they might use the image they see within that fantasy. When women read romance novels of tall, strong, muscle-bound men rescuing them from the pirate bad guys, should their husband be upset because they might not be the tall muscle-bound handsome guy they see in the novels? Nope. It's just a fantasy.
2016-03-26 21:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like porn movies either. i mean whats the point, your getting yourself off by watching other people have sex! To me thats a real turn off!Why would you wanna see other people have sex?
If your girlfriend is boring in bed then maybe suggest a few different positions or introduce some sex toys. If you love your girlfriend that much you would give up the porn.
2006-09-11 23:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have never met a woman like this, where do you find these women? Is she really religious or what? I have never had this problem, I dont know what to tell you, can she really be the one if sex is "boring" cut your losses playa, there are way to many fish in the sea who would love that you watch porn instead of cheating.
2006-09-11 23:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by panty p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both need to be more adventerous in the bedroom - speak to her and tell her what you are feeling - might be time to call it a day if she is BORING and all you want is a cuddle!!!
Keeping porn isnt something from your past - you are trying to stop yourself from letting go of being single and free to do what you want - perhaps this is why you and her havent got a great relationship in the bedroom - stop spanking the monkey and you might desire her more.
Keep 1 or 2 films if you must but try and limit the amount you use them - after all if your wasting your time on them - what does your girlfriend get ?? SLOPPY SECONDS
2006-09-11 23:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen dumb as$ It's real simple' If you don't give up the porn u will lose the girl. Witch means more' The fantasy or the girl ? She should kick your butt to the curb. If you have to think about this very long she will think you are a perv.
2006-09-11 23:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, you are one dang selfish bastard, aren't you??
You already know what to do!!
Get rid of the porn completely because, NEWS FLASH, no good girl worth having will EVER EVER match up to that fake bull crap you like to look at!! It's so degrading and misleading, twisted and disgusting! Your poor girlfriend!! If I was dating you I'd dump you so fast you wouldn't know the difference from up and down anymore!!
If you are not willing to change your selfish and perverted ways, then you better do HER a favor and dump her and go find yourself the trash that you love so much!
2006-09-11 23:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF THE HABIT.. PORN robbed u of any proper respect for women.. unless u stop ad control urself, u'll always be a baby with dirty thoughts who just have no self-control to her.. May God help u..
2006-09-11 23:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by experienced_analyser 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women only hate porn because they see it as competition. Same thing as going to a gentlemans club. They don't like you looking at other women because they think that if you do you're going to want to break the sacred rule of "look, don't touch". If only women would learn to be more secure, and know that we love them, and know that porn is only a way for us to explore. Boobs are for a man what shoes are for women. We want to see every pair.
Oh, and for another thing, if its getting boring with her, try something new. Dress her up like a slut, put a wig on yourself and have fun. Get er done!
2006-09-11 23:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋