I'm an attractive girl.... see www.myspace.com/awfullyritch
I'm nice, smart, caring, and yep, cant seem to find a good guy I would actually WANT to date, since I broke up with my ex four months ago... what is gonig on here?
2006-09-11 22:48:55 · 26 answers · asked by Amanda R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a beautiful, smart girl looking for love and not finding it yet. You have some tough obstacles.
You are insecure because your family situation was insecure when you grew up. To compensate you surround yourself with as many people as you can...looking for the love you feel you didn't get as a child. And you're picking the wrong kinds of friends. The guys in those pictures on myspace are the frat boy type who'll use you and dump you, and those bubblehead blondes are not in your league.
What you need to do is change, and change causes pain. Are you ready for that? For example, if you are truly interested in business and fashion, you should get yourself into a good fashion school in NYC (for example the Katharine Gibbs School) and find yourself a great female mentor. Forget the rah rah OSU beer keg life, the frat boys, and the good time girlfriends. The right type of friends will come along, but you need to choose better, and you can.
I hope I have not offended you.
BTW I like your dad, your picture with him does say a lot ot things.
2006-09-11 22:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-21 01:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a big enough social network. It's like looking for a 1996 penny. If you only have a small amount of change in your pocket, odds are you won't have one. You may only have a few pennies mixed in with a bunch of nickels, dimes and quarters.
If you have this big jar of PENNIES then you'll have several (if not many) 1996 pennies to choose from.
Go out and mingle, meet new folks, hang out where nice guys hang out and don't be afraid to make the first move because he may be nice but also shy.
2006-09-11 22:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RE:
Why can't I find a good boyfriend?
I'm an attractive girl.... see www.myspace.com/awfullyritch
I'm nice, smart, caring, and yep, cant seem to find a good guy I would actually WANT to date, since I broke up with my ex four months ago... what is gonig on here?
2015-08-04 05:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take some time out for yourself and do what you want to do for awhile? You don't have to validate yourself by being in a relationship. Enjoy life and stop looking for someone. When you're happy and content in yourself, Mr. Right will come along... not Mr. Rightnow.
2006-09-11 22:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh..I know that exact feeling. When my ex and I broke up, I was single more or less for about a year. It sucked because I wasn't going to settle for just anyone, and no one was good enough for me! But, it will make you happy to know that the next person I finally started talking to, I married. :) I've been married for 9 months now. So, keep your head up, don't lower your standards, and he will come around.
2006-09-11 23:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Amy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find a good guy bc there are so few out there. Especially at your age, (you sound young) most guys are all about playing games and partying.
2006-09-12 02:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of 2 things
1) you're still not completely over your ex. Give it more time of being single and then start looking
Or
2) My opinion. Allt he nice guys are so tired and bored of being messed around by manipulative women and taken for granted (as tey are nice guys) that they prefer to remain single and won't look for the trouble that relationships cause them
2006-09-11 22:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chris F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
coz you've seen all the nega_tive in your ex. And you tend to relate all that in the new guys you meet up with. First, try letting go of your old bf... completely. And stop comparing him to the rest of the world out there. Good luck!
2006-09-11 22:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by cre8or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here for all you lovely woman out there.
2006-09-11 22:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Scouser7674 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋