even if you've actually spent a lot of time together
2006-09-11 22:13:53 · 21 answers · asked by geno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people come into your life for a reason, season or a life time. When that time is up, let go, take the lesson you learned from that experience and move on.
2006-09-11 22:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because it never was "love " at all in the first place. It was probably just sexual attraction,and once that wears thin and gets old there is nothing left.
After you have spent some time with a person,their true personality shows through,and you either tire of them ,or they tire of you and it was just a moment in time that has passed.
A learning experience that you can file in your memory banks,or just press the delete button and move on.
Nothing ever stays the same,and people change also,depending on where they are at a certain point in their life.
Perhaps you were being used,or you were using them for whatever reason,that could be also.
Monogamous activity in today's society is passe'. In yesterdays culture it was unheard of to have multiple partners,or not to stay married to just one person.
Treasure the memories,learn from them ,it makes you who you are today.
Good luck ! :)
2006-09-12 05:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love isn't forever. Unfortunately sometimes people change and grow in different directions. Enjoy the times you have with your loved ones because you never know when you might lose someone. Cherish the time you have, hold dear the fond memories, then go out there and start a new day. Life waits for nobody, live it to the fullest.
2006-09-12 05:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well coz it does. Sounds crass but I broke up with my boy friend of three years and though it hurt like hell, now I think maybe it wasn't true love. Because real love doesn't end but it isn't one sided either. So hold on there and who knows, you'll eventually find someone who is just right for you. And sometimes what you feel might not be love...love comes in different forms but true love...only once.
2006-09-12 05:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all good things come to an end in this non-permanent world.everyone has flaws and when the time comes to cope up with other's flaws most often we fail.that could be a reason for realationships to fail.
2006-09-12 07:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad question, and even sadder answer...
If love lasted for ever it wouldn' t be so special...it's like life...you have to enjoy every single moment of it because every minute could be the last one...
I know it's not fair...but it's true...
2006-09-12 05:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient and kind. Love envies no one, is never boastful, never conceited, never rude; love is never selfish, never quick to take offence. Love keeps no score of wrongs, takes no pleasure in the sins of others, but delights in the truth. There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, its hope, its endurance......LOVE HAS NO END........
2006-09-12 05:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by archie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are just experiences for the soul. no worries, love is everywhere... a love that ends only is to prepare for a love that is awaiting you.
2006-09-12 05:20:57 · answer #8 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all good things come to an end and so does love. that's life
just broke up with my bf of 4 yrs and it hurts, a lot...
2006-09-12 05:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by crazy_for_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe it's because it was never meant to be in the first place..Sometimes we just want LOVE to be there so bad that we actually force it to be....Just be patient...:)
2006-09-12 05:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋