Been seeing each other a few months and he sneaks kisses at work when he thinks no one is looking, will call from his extension to mine (we have caller ID at work), and still won't hang out with my co-workers on the weekends when I do. A few already know because they've hung out with us in small groups or seen us together but he won't come when it's a lot of people from the job.
Is he being professional or is he emberrassed?
2006-09-11 22:11:10 · 17 answers · asked by who_cares 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say being professional. The worst thing that could happen is having the whole company in your business. And if things with you don't work out, or if you have a disagreement, you do not want for people to take it out of hand.
2006-09-11 22:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be embarrassed, but more than likely he's not. He probably does not want everyone at work all up in your business and all the drama that goes along with that. Plus, you both have an obligation to maintain your professionalism at work and not create a conflict of interest by bringing your personal lives into the work environment. If you're still worried about it, talk to him. That's the best way to find out what's on his mind.
2006-09-12 05:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if he was embarrassed he wouldn't have been with you anyway. Why should he risk his reputation???
I think he's professional and if you think about it he's right. Why should everybody at work know about your affair and gossip you all the time. Even an innocent gesture will appear a reason to talk in their eyes.
Check how things are with his other friends. Does he introduce you to them? Do you all hang out together? If he does, then there's nothing to worry about.
2006-09-12 05:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why will he be embarrassed? what's the point of feeling that way?
i don't think he's being professional because if he is professional he would not be sneaking kisses at work nor call you during working time.
maybe, the proper questions there are: does he have clean intentions or he is just immature?
be careful lady....
2006-09-12 05:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by enigmaticenegue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depemds on the job situation. in a lot of places, both of you would get fired. in other situations, many co-workers would look very unfavorably on it. just keep it discreet. if this is serious, you might want to figure out what would happen if you got married. that could still cause problems with company nepotism policies. good luck.
2006-09-12 05:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At work place its best to keep the relationship secret it cd bring issues and incase ur work or his starts detoriating u cd both be reprimanded i think he is proffessional try get a job else where u cd start feeling jealousy wen he vibes other chics
2006-09-12 05:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could ask him and know for sure....but a lot of places do not like for the employees to date each other...it can cause trouble in the work place...he may just be trying to be more professional...but if some have seen you looks like word of mouth would get around anyway...so i would ask him...and he may just be taking it slow for now....only he knows for sure....
2006-09-12 05:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being professional. Give him a break. Oh and asking him would be a good idea too!
2006-09-12 05:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to make it a personal issue u know.
i mean not everyone has the right to know what's going on between u both.
he's doing the right thing.
2006-09-12 05:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Musty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is scared of people knowing in case something happens and you break up
2006-09-12 05:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋