I've known him for over a year and we're best friends. Currently we have a "friends with benefits" arrangement, but the feelings between us are deeper than that now.
2006-09-11 22:03:12 · 16 answers · asked by txsunflower81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just ask him if you could talk about where your relationship is leading...tell him your feelings and that you would like to take it to the next level...he should be ready for a commitment to you if he really loves you and does not want to lose you...and you are best friends then it should not be hard to explain how you feel to him....if he has the attitude why get the whole package for free instead of making a commitment to you then you may have to move on...i know it is easier said than done too....but you do not want to go on like you are do you???/
2006-09-11 22:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really a good friend with him for over a year why you do not discuss your future life with the guy.You can ask him what is his future life will be and what is the condition or qualification of his would be wife..You can ask him when he will get married.What do you mean with a "friends with benefit " arrangement ?Do you have a sharing life insurance or sharing investment with him?You said you have a deeper feelings so you can talk about marriage and making a future happy .family.You must evaluate him whether you are fit for him and he is also fit for you.Making a family is nothing to do with same
,attitude , hobby and character.Men and women are not a perfect humanbeing.Each of you certainly has shortcomings or weaknesses.You should take and give feelings both of you if you want to be a spouse in a happy and long lasting family.You must have a strong commitment with him for maintaining a happy family in the future with a legal and formal marriage.Do not be a losser.
2006-09-11 22:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what matuarity level ur relationships are.. Sometimes ur expectations differ from what ur partner's expectaions from the relationships.. & this creates a misunderstanding when u decide to take one step ahead...try to gauge his expectations as well first..Also prepare urself first, try to gather all relevent information u think are necessary for life... because real life is so different than reel life...
2006-09-11 23:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but who says so?
I'm sure that your feelings are deeper now...but what about his?
It's normal that you want more from your relation, but be careful because he may be scared at the idea of having responsibilities toward you and everything...
2006-09-11 22:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo should have never had the FWB relationship.. it will now be difficult transitioning to a heart felt relationship. Honestly, he can get laid anywhere, it seems. I feel for you... I know how it is to love and not be anything but a warm body.
2006-09-11 22:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Talisman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are already close to him and you obviously have been intimate with him, then just come out and tell him that you feel like you wanna move the friendship into a relationship, be honest... if he's your friend he'll understand and atleast be honest with you
2006-09-11 22:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you've known him for more than a year..
& IF you're best friends..
Why can't you just TELL him...
Just get the real romantic aura all around & then he just won't be able to say no..
Good luck!
2006-09-11 22:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by misanthropia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab his privet parts and ask - do you like to go for fak.
What I know friends don't fak friends.
You made me angry with your question.
2006-09-11 22:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out for a meal and then tell him after he has enjoyed himself.
2006-09-11 22:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, it sounds like he is on the same level as you are
2006-09-11 22:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋