My ex says he still loves me and misses me all the time but he wont even consider becoming a couple again... i cant move on while I know this is the case becasue i still love him as well... confusing!
2006-09-11 21:50:25 · 25 answers · asked by rude_boy1983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shed some pounds and show some leg
2006-09-11 21:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by aaupthemeggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what happened so you both are no more together since you both love each other as I understood from your message
in my opinion your Ex is saying all that just so not to hurt you .. I know that if someone loves someone else then he/she would do whatever possible to be done to be with the one he/she loves
if you would take it from me I would suggest that you do not call him nor get in contact with him in any way .. not to do the move and see how long he would wait till he calls or checks on you ..
I would not say find someone to spend your time with and make him jealous .. well such things are not what brings the right feelings out of a person you want him to come back and he feels and is sure that he wants to be with you .. I see that if he does not come back alone then he does not deserve you .. but until you hear from him .. go ahead with your life as if he does not exist anymore .. give yourself a chance to know the world without him being next to you .. things will change .. trust me .. and you would get better very soon
Good Luck
2006-09-12 05:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ramrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can not be trusted.He is a lie.If he is still love you and you love him also,why he said that he would not consider of becoming a good and happy couple with you.I think you made a free sex and live together with him without get married.You both made a sin.
You have no a legal right and obligation,so it is easy to live together and he leaves you if he got boring.He has got what he wanted from you and he will get another victim.He is not a responsible man.He is not good for you.It is better if you search other good guy and make a sharing life through a formal marriage.
2006-09-12 05:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
I kindly ask you whether your relationship in the past was pretending to be a life long partner or just since you think you have to have a partner.This sort of relationship is not good for both of you.If you are really to have a lifelong partnership, think about it.Think deeply about whether it will not harm the rest of your life.Then put it on a strong foundation, that is the words of God.Since both of you have good understanding since you believe in God, you do not miss each other.But now you think you love each other with your ex friend.But he does not come to you again.We see these happen all the time those who live worldly life.Look what happens to you.It would have been good if you build your relationship with him ones again.Otherwise try to forget him.And assume he is your brother.Look for a good partner in a way I put the details above.You will have a very peaceful and enjoyable life with God.
2006-09-12 05:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to force yourself on someone or beg for their affections if they don't want to be with you. If you do happen to hook back up, they might not respect you as much or may despise you because you're putting them in a position they don't want to be in. He may not want to live "that lifestyle" anymore or maybe he really just wants to move on. What caused the break-up? How often did you argue in the past? Did you have to keep the relationship a secret? What happened? Maybe he just doesn't want to go through all of that again. Don't make yourself miserable... Find new loves and new people to "chill" with and if he really misses and loves you, he'll come back. Just make sure it's not a booty-call unless that's all you want at the time.
"You don't have to be a player to live The Player's Lifestyle."
2006-09-12 05:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP TALKING TO HIM. If he doesnt want to get back together then it's over for good. People (like me haha) tend to always think they have a need to be friends with their exes. And sometimes thats just not the case. The best way to move on from someone is cut them out of your life. You just have to be that harsh sometimes. You're wasting your time to even be confused about this.
2006-09-12 04:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love him and move on. No matter what happens, you will always have feelings for someone that you were in love with. But if he dosen't want to get back together with you, then you really need to move on for your own sake. Because if not, then you will never be happy. I think that he is trying to drag you along until he thinks that he has found someone else. That way he has you to fall back on. Be strong for yourself. You deserve better.
2006-09-12 05:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by sexydragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my ex did that to me I would move on to spite him. What he is doing to you is emotional blackmail. If you continue to let him then you will never move on. The best thing you can do right now is get very far away from him and do your best to have a normal life without him. You can do it and for your sake I hope you do.
Love shouldn't hurt and if it does then guess what? It's lust not love and that is what is holding you to him. When you really do find love it will not be stressful. I wish you the very best of luck and hope that you will find the right person for you. He is out there.
2006-09-12 04:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we dont know why you broke up? Who initiated it? Who was at fault?
If it was you who made the mistake, and you do love him, just doooooooont give up. Grovel, beg, kneel down and believe me it is worth it. You will feel the pain and you might not get him back, but you would not regret that you never tried.
Yes, we need to move on sometimes. But moving on doesnt mean giving up.
Itz the love. Which is beyond pride, ego and self-esteem.
Give it a go.
Best of luck!!! :)
2006-09-12 04:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Akshat S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that mabey he just needs some space away from the title of being in a relationship. Try to be more of a friend than a girlfriend he will soon realize how important your friendship means a might want to then strenghthen that with a more serious relationship. Be patient and don't be guided my emotions .
2006-09-12 04:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by simonalisa83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's just trying to have his cake and eat it too! He doesn't want you to move on so he's going to string you along for a while until he can get another girlfriend. You NEED to move on. Just live like he never even said that to you, don't fall for this man's mind games because the only person that's going to end up stuck, is YOU!
2006-09-12 05:07:14 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋