Could you ever consider being with a woman with some criminal history?
Only drug related, not jail time but history of abusive realationships ending in a death. Also some assosiation issues.
Could a woman like that ever be in a serious realationship with an officer?
Honest answers please.
2006-09-11 21:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by Candy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah. The key to your question was "history". what you did in the past shouldn't matter now, it doesn't with me. I think that the experiences of our past, good or bad, make us the person that we are today. I'm interested in the person that is in front of me now and what occurred earlier in her life wouldn't really sway me and how I feel for her. Make sense?
2006-09-12 00:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Eric 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is usually the police officers that are abusive in the relationship. The cop husband has drinking problems and beats his wife or girlfriend. Very high rates of this among police officers. If you really like her then give her a chance. If she continues to hang out with criminal friends and gets in trouble then get away from her before she screws up your reputation. If she has changed and is living a decent lifestyle then stick with her.
2006-09-12 04:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a firm believer that people can change .. as long as the person is walking the correct path - why not.
Needless to say I have never been arrested, never done drugs as well. But we have all made some form of mistakes prior..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-12 04:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the charges. type and outcome of the trial. and most of all how recent the charges are. but i really dont care unless you are still doing stupid things to get get more charges. i look at the person not the charge. If you want futher insite from me ( i am a cop) my email address is acsodeputy867@yahoo.com
2006-09-12 04:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am officer for 10 years, my first gf was arrested for shoplifting before I know her. What matter most to me is the future, so long she won't do it again when with me. As I can't bring myself to arrest her.
2006-09-12 04:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think so. it depends realy. if the cop knows the partner enough. if the partner is angry alot and wont calm down easy, its a maybe. if the partner isnt so agressive, and can calm easy, then ya, go for it. im only 15, but every one tells me i have good sense. i hope this helps. :)
2006-09-12 04:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by TanK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but I would never allow it in my relationship, because of fall out from past behavior
2006-09-12 04:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would yes if thats the past why would it matter now...
2006-09-12 04:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know babe
2006-09-12 04:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋