see i know this gal and her dude mistreats her and i dont know how to help her !!! so answer and help me pliiiiiiiiiiiizzzzzzz!!!
2006-09-11 21:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by kuku 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think good girls are attracted to bad boys because it's a change for them. What they need to understand is that they need to find a bad boy who will be nice to THEM. But good luck finding those. They are few and far between. I like those ones too.
2006-09-11 21:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by loveygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't operate on a level playing field.
They say love is blind.
I'll modify that with (for these wacky times), shacking up with anyone who comes along so as not to be lonely or bored is what most people seem to be doing, and amazingly, we keep getting into tighter and tighter spaces.
I mean, three and four in a small apartment to share the high cost of rent?
Forget that idea, I say go out and rebel against those that put you there!
For openers, check out all the downsizing going on with corporations today who refuse to pay a living wage!
I keep preaching, and all I keep hearing is "dude" and guys", but nobody wants to face the issue and do something about it!
2006-09-11 21:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls always choose the confident exciting jerks who wind up mistreating them over the unconfident "nice"/nerdy guys who would treat them better. If you want a nice guy, choose the nice guy, if you want to be treated like crap, choose the confident exciting guy. Easy.
2006-09-11 21:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know so times we need to go thought bad stuff to know what a good thing is when it comes along, as for helping your gal you need to ask her if she love him more that herself
P.S she would need to want to change for life for anyone to help her
that's how life is. good luck :D
P.S.S i am a nice guy But gals dont want a nice guy
2006-09-11 21:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by mrl3ig65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its mostly girls who have had issues in the past, mostly the ones who where abused as children. Tell her to see a therapist and get professional help.
2006-09-11 21:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by adrian p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more common than people think.
I made the mistake of telling a friend to "be careful" with a guy i know she is chasing. I was trying to help her avoid pregnancy.
She went behind my back and told him what i said.
Typical stupid girl. Now we dont talk. any of us.
2006-09-11 21:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self-esteem generally.
2006-09-11 21:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ender 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls want the bad-*** dude!
2006-09-11 21:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is asking for help there is not much you can do to help, except to be there for her when she needs you.
2006-09-11 21:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girls are dumb, i love'em but jesus christ
2006-09-11 21:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋