I know some people try to date as many people as they can in oder to see if the one they settle down with is the best thats out there(Compare). But i feel every person you get to close to takes a little bit of you, and you can't give the hole package to your one real love? Should you spare yourself? or feel free to hook something up with every other person!
Ps. I found someone that i thought is my true love, I gave her everything i had(not sex). Our relationship lasted a year and 26 days. i feel like i've been rob!
I still think of her everyday, sometimes i cant sleep.
I think she was scared of settling down, scared that i'm not "the one". We had an exelent relationship! but to the end she started to change. Please help me...
2006-09-11 20:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by volla67 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your still young you will have many loves
2006-09-11 21:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by creativebeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. don't think that way. You do not lose anything. You are 100% and you will always be 100%... You will share joy and pain with many people but each failed relationship will only make you stronger.
I can understand what your going through. It took me 2 years to get over a 9 month relationship. Although those two years had been hard for me.. I used those time to evaluate myself.. understand where I might have done wrong to repeal her away. You can always get something positive out of anything.. just how you look at it.
If you do decide to date a lot.. I would recommend not having sex until marriage. Becareful who you kiss, 1/3 or so people got herpies..
24/Los Angeles
"premarital sex creates broken families, broken families creates broken society - a vicious cycle only you can stop."
2006-09-12 04:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well isnt it good that you didnt marry her and end up divorced?
I think you should date as many people as you can before marriage it gives you a better understanding of how people are. How do you know you have met your 1 true love if you dont give anyone a chance. I also don't believe there is such thing as 1 true love. People meet people and decide which relationships are worth trying to make work theres no destiny to partnerships its all work.
2006-09-12 04:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that young people should play the field when they are young so when they finally get married, they don't feel they missed anything and are well equipped to decide what type is best for them. I don't think they should have sex with them, however, as that sometimes blinds them to each other's faults, only to have a rude awakening when the blinders come off.
2006-09-12 04:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe its good. It gives you experience if nothing else. You date to find out what you want in a marriage partner. Yes it hurts alot, its a lot of work, and sometimes you just want to give up. But when you do find the righ person it is SO WORTH IT!
2006-09-12 04:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all. My exgirlfriend broke my heart and I felt worst than you do. But I met someone who healed my heart, and as a result I grew as a person. And had more to give then ever before.
2006-09-12 04:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by adrian p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋