2006-09-11 20:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by massage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd recommend friendship for now.
I was divorced a number of years ago, and went through a rather long adjustment process. I remarried after two years.
You could date this great guy, but I would recommend against getting really serious for a while. Even if your marriage was really terrible, and you are glad to get out of it, there is an adjustment process going on and you need to travel its course before you get into another relationship.
Also, as long as you are still married, if you get into a serious relationship before the divorce it could surface in the case. It's best to wait until the divorce is final before getting involved with another person.
Follow your conscience, but talk to your lawyer too.
2006-09-11 20:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first marriage and breakup should be used as a learning point for you to avoid for your future relationships. Looks like you have not, because you are already talking about love with a "great guy", even before your divorce is complete!
Take it easy, lady.
To be fair to yourself and your future partner, give yourself time to assess the situation and your new friends before committing again. Love seems to come very easily to you. Are you very sure you are not using this "great guy" as a stop gap measure?
Do not repeat the same mistake. Marriage is too costly a mistake to be made twice for anyone.
2006-09-11 21:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can let this one go to shop a little bit, or if he's that great, then you may want to keep him. Most guys aren't going to stand down and tell you it's OK to keep an open eye if he's really into you. It would hurt his feelings. Is he so great that you think it could be forever, or no? Don't throw something good away just because you feel you need to explore.
2006-09-11 21:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by loveygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people never get the chance to love anyone , they never get married. you are already getting out of one Love story and now you have found another! Dont overlook it to play grow up and be an adult. I guess , Im saying you are lucky that you get to have found love twice, when some never find it at all!
2006-09-11 20:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done with a nasty divorce, and I will have to say no. If you pass up this chance you might not have another. The grass is not greener on the other side just watered a lil more
2006-09-11 20:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u don't want to miss it u could start just as casual friend. Do not commit yourself into it too fast. Give yourself more time to think, to understand each other more. I'm sure u don't hope a 2nd time. I had gone through it so i could understand.
2006-09-11 20:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Renew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to join the US Marines, hump day every wednesday
2006-09-11 20:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you feel the need to do so.
2006-09-11 20:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already ruined somebody`s life,dont start it again http://americanwomensux.com read it
2006-09-11 20:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't get,what are you trying to ask
2006-09-11 20:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by ivanna m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋