What am i doing that is so freakin wrong? I start talkin to someone then we start dating. Then it just goes to crap in a week... I am confused..... I'm not clingy, or jealous. I don't move to fast. I'm lost. If ya can help I would be greatful!
2006-09-11 20:29:56 · 21 answers · asked by heather_21_2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well we talk for longer than a week! Like the last guy we talked for three months then started dating. And with in a week it was over. No I'm not having sex with them right away either.
2006-09-11 20:39:43 · update #1
It's not you sweety, it's them. Don't ever let a man make you think you doing something wrong.
-It's their loss!
2006-09-11 20:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...without knowing how it goes to crap in a week, I have no idea of telling you specifically.
But maybe you should give it more time as friends before going the next step in dating.
And maybe you just haven't met the right guy yet.
2006-09-12 03:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break and think things over in a cool manner. Find what you've done wrong in your past friendships and what you ought to do in your future ones. Don't rush-up new bf's and do not succumb to their demands unless you're convinced of them (including sex). Just be calm and calculating. Good Luck.
2006-09-12 03:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might want to figure out what you want in a boyfriend. Maybe you're going for the wrong people. Either way figure out what you want in a significant other, and what kind of relationship you want to be in right now.
2006-09-12 04:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, sometimes people just don't connect. I've done it too, where you really want something to work, but something's just not there. Timing can be hard, also.
It sounds like you're doing what all of us singles do - keeping hope alive :) Don't worry too much, that's how things have gone for me lately too (sort of).
2006-09-12 03:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you arent doing anything wrong, maybe its just natures way of saying, hey, hes not the one. Keep trying, youll find the one youre supposed to be with.Good luck
2006-09-12 03:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so maybe you're TOO elusive?? not being clingy and jealous is fine, but are you actually acting like you're not interested AT ALL maybe? Perhaps you're being a bit too off-standish?
2006-09-12 03:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through, just relax have fun, and the right man will come along. Remember act yourself.
2006-09-12 03:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by roughridaz_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give us an example if your last failed encounter, illustrated by drawings if you like, and then we can dissect the matter piece by piece to try and find an answer to this.
2006-09-12 03:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are having sex w/ them in that week, then maybe thats why- like, they get what they want ...
or, maybe if you arent having sex w/ them, thats all they're looking for & they move on cause they're not getting anywhere...
in any case, wait for a long time b4 you get intimate w/ them.
2006-09-12 03:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋