2006-09-11 20:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Muhammad Sh 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Try it with being an atheist. Things go much easier this way.
2006-09-11 20:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by aliya_de 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it oughtapends how strong your convictions are and whether you are a moderate or not. don't just go and marry her so you can have sex. if you really don't want to then spend some time apart.
I figure, if your gonna not have sex with her because of Islam then you shouldn't actually be seeing her at all by yourself so the situation to have sex should never arise. since, I'm guessing you are not following the no contact by yourselves rule that is in the Qur'an, you are already a moderate and what makes you think holding out on this one is saving you from sins. Do what you feel is right and have God in your heart. No one can pass judgment on you because they are not God/Allah. For me I'm more moderate and try to adapt the principles of Islam, people here can criticize me for this but they have no right because religion is personal. If you love her then make a decision that is sensible and with love in your heart. Your whole salvation is not dependent on this, but really you should not be spending anytime alone with her at all.
2006-09-12 03:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what you mean by you are a muslim. Do you mean one who believes what is written. If you do believe why are you asking and if you do not then are you a muslim. Perhaps a part time muslim. Many christians appear to be part time as well and look where we are now, decadent. Where do you want your people to be 50 years from now, where we are now??? think long and hard.
2006-09-12 03:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are a Muslim then you are not supposed to have Girl friends either...
any way why dont you go ahead and marry her. If you love her then you should marry her ...
If you are simply interested in Sex go to a prostitute.. Don't disturb Devout Muslims...
2006-09-12 09:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Parsu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then, dont have sex.. And, if u think u cant do dat, means it will become a must fo u to marry her.. If u dont want to, then dont do it. tsa test, which will show yer obedience on god.. To choose, joy fo awhile n suffer fo eternity, o control yer desire..
2006-09-12 04:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married
2006-09-12 03:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jamal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever is written in the Koran, be faithful to it and marry when you are ready, then you will bring honor to yourself, family, yourgirlfriend and Allah.
2006-09-12 03:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by iamwhoiam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can have sex withe here , mohammad (your prophet ) had sex with mor than 20 woman and he had sex with ayesha whin she was 9 years old and he had sex withe malakat al yameen ( war presenours and slaves )
i can give you proofs from muslem books
2006-09-12 03:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by khaled 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
better u get marry as soon as posibble...
2006-09-12 05:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by sitizaida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not Loadzzz of FUN :(
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2006-09-12 03:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by whynotaskclown 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋