He does so much for me. He repairs things in my house and builds me anything I want. He does all the work himself. He works two jobs and comes over even when he did not get any sleep so he can work on my house. He even brings me fresh bread because he knows I love this special bread. He makes sure that the bread is fresh out of the oven. He does not care if I look not all put together. He loved me fat and now skinny.
2006-09-11 20:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by LuLu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have thought over question and now I think that he does show me indirectly that he is committed. Sometimes he makes future plans for us but does not tell me right away. For example I want him to move in with me. He said that he would but next year. But now he is fixing a room in my garage and I said I dont want the room unless he moves in. He says that is why he is building it. How do you get your boyfriend to call on the phone more, to communicate more, etc. I may be to pushy so now I am backing off. I am annoyed right now because he was suppose to come over early and he still is not here and no phone call. Sunday he did the same thing but he came over midmorning when he used to come over at 8am. Maybe I am expecting tooooo much. Any advice???
2006-09-15 03:57:48 · update #1
WOW sounds like you got a great guy there. I'd be careful not to scare him off-perhaps hes already seeing only you, and subcontiously he already thinks you guys r serious. Maybe the best thing to do is wait for him to come to you.
2006-09-11 20:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sort of sounds like he is committed to you in a sense. Are the two of you not exclusive?? I wish you would have provided more details.
Are you talking about marriage?? If yes... then I wouldn't push it. It's only been 8 months and if things continue on as they are now then it's probably headed that direction... if you don't blow it by pressuring him and scaring him off. Just enjoy each day. If, however, the 2 year mark rolls around and he has yet to talk about nuptials than I would say it's okay to ask whether or not he's interested.
Best wishes. Sounds like you have a great guy!
2006-09-12 03:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is already committed. If you want more, discus it with him. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. Just let him know without applying any pressure. You might be surprised. Then again it could be that his past leave him to feel that what you have is enough for him. The one thing you don't want to do is spoil what you already have...so be careful...give it more time and don't be greedy.
2006-09-12 03:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right time! you have to take a risk here, after all life is about taking risks. Sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him. Don't move too fast though, how about moving in first. See how that goes, if it goes fine, consider marriage.
2006-09-12 03:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by adrian p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and express your feeling to him let him know that you want more out of the relationship, and see how he responds if he is still iffy about then try to work together and make what you have already last longer.
2006-09-12 03:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as possbily. life is short and have to take some risk as soon as possbily. but make sure that you know the bad sad can happen too. and should not get mad or discred
2006-09-12 03:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it is time for you to have a talk about commitment
2006-09-12 03:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him ...if he's that sweet of a guy he should totally understand...it sounds like he is committed to you already....are you to him???
2006-09-12 03:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋